Jason is definitely not engaged to deanna he's  engaged to Mellissa. The girl he proposes to has a mole on her left arm. You see it when he puts the ring on her finger.  If you have a dvr you can pause the tv when they are showing previews at the end of mondays show. For a split second melissa has her hands  infront of her face and you see the mole then. she also has on the gold ring on her pinkie finger. melissa the winner! Take it to the bank!

I would LOVE it if it were DEANNA......they mad a great couple and I know she's regretting every minute of it. Can't wait to see who his lucky lady is!!

I hope he marrys Nikki.... Although it would have been nice if Deanna would have had her mind mad up months ago .... i think she shouldnt get that chance now.... i think jason had his eyes on Nikki from the start!... But we will see...14 more to go

I Hope its not Deanna. she dunped him, its time to move on. Jason said he was ready to move on which meant he is over Deanna. Deanna made a mistake, she should move on with her life. and i really like Melissa, so i hope bachqueen is right!!

I would love to ee more of Jason and deanna.  I beleive people have regrets with decisions in thier lives.  I have this gut wrenching feeling its going to be Stephanie and she is my least favorite.  I have to wonder why she wears her make up so heavy. She may be a nice woman but she isn't the least it attractive.  She is using her husbands death as a trump card and that makes me sick.  I hope he sends her home next week.  I love Nikki the most this season and a great twist would be Deanna and Nikki as the final 2.

it's not gonna be Deanna.

He's not gonna make that same mistake again and i feel sorry for the rest of the girls that have to go through because of Deanna's return.

It was her mistake.

Now it's his chance to find someone new to love.

From what i can see, he is an amazing, caring man who needs someone serious and with a kind heart.

And he'll find that :)

I can't wait to find out who Jason picks at the end. It's interesting to read above that Jason picks Melissa (the girl with the mole). Time will tell.......

Who knows what this season of The Bachelor will hold??? We can only hope that Jason will find the right person to spend the rest of his life with.  This means that there will be some twists to the final desicion that he must make.  With the reappearnce of DeAnna, I believe that Jason will be faced with some turmoil because he still may have some of his old feelings rekindled being rejected by her.  I honestly think that Jason should move on because DeAnna had her chance and chose someone else.  

I would really love to see DeAnna and Jason get together. I know that is hard to understand why I say this but in last seasons premiere they looked so happy together and besides that I think that they make a really good couple. I do not think anyone on this season really looks that good with him. I wish if it was not DeAnna then it was me. Jason seems to be a great guy and I wish him all the happiness in the world. Jason you have a beautiful son. Treasure him because they are a blessing. I say that from experience I have two beautiful little girls and they mean as much to me as Ty to you! I really hope that you gave DeAnna another chance but if not then I hope you found the women of your dreams.

Right now I really don't see Jason with any of the girls on the show.  They're all so aggressive and cutesy.  It's sort of galling really.  I agree that Stephanie is exploiting her sad story, but ABC edited it so it appears she is anyway.  I'll have mixed emotions if he does go back w/ DeAnna.  On the last review show they said they're good friends, and maybe more so now???  She dumped him, then she dumps Jesse at the luggage rack of the airport in November...good grief!  

It is Jessica, the widow.

I think it is Jessica too, she is the one that is widowed.

C

I hope Jason does not choose Deana because she is looking to be an actress

and i do not feel she is sincere to be with Jason because if she was it's no way

she would have chosen a snowboarder with no secure future over a caring man with a fabulous future who exhibited the love he had for her.She needs to just go away because she missed a great opportunity in many ways. The attorney was even in love with her and she messed over him. She is just not for the right thing when it comes to good men.

We all know that The Bachelor star, Jason Mesnick, is currently engaged to one of the bachelorettes who

it's melissa!!!!  in the preview of the proposal scene the girl has dark skin, dark hair, a pinky ring, and a mole.  it's melissa.  stephanie makes it to top 4.

I reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hope it is deanna i loved them together and we all know everybody makes mistakes and i think jason should give her another chance because as he said he LOVED her and i think since he loved her so much he should give her another chance and i dont think jason wants anybody else accept deanna b/c he was so in love with her i dont think he will be able to find true love accept her and as you saw in the 1 episode that she was there it is possilble that she comes back at the end and competes with the other girls and he may pick her but if it is not her i very much hope it is Mellissa b/c look how they connected on the 2nd episode

I hope it is, melissa or jillian. He should not pick Deanna, because she chose him as second not first, so she doesnt deserve another chance. When he and jillian are together, they equal eachother. when he and melissa are together, he is always smiling. When Jason asked melissa, "what she would do in the summer, if she were a teacher." Her answer was perfect. "I would spend time with my kids. I also like stephanie, because she is mature and knows what you have to do, to have a good life. Sooooooooo......my top 3 would have to be Melissa, Jillian, and Stephanie. NOTE: If you see the nails of the girls he proposes to, they are melissa's nails, but we will just have to see.

I dislike: Natalie, Molly, Erica, Shannon, and Lauren

Please pick Melissa or Jillian

GET RID OF SHANNON! SHE IS SO WEIRD! SHE ACTS LIKE SHE IS IN HIGH SCHOOL, BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOO SHE IS 29! SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP!

I can't wait till next weeks show!!! When Jason and Stephanie are on the beach and her daughter comes running down the beach, soooo cute! I hope he pickes Stephanie. I read what a few had said about Melissa and the mole on her arm.... I DVR it so I'll have to go back and check that out. Melissa use to be the cheerleader right?  My top three as of right now are- Melissa, Stephanie and Jillian.

I also believe that Jason is engaged to Melissa.  I remember the hands on the person he proposed to and they were french manicure and the pinky finger was a little stubby...Check out Melissa's hands.  I thought she was cute for Jason.  Perfect match!!!

I hope it is Stephanie and can't wait till next week to see. They would have a perfect family together.

I turly hope it is Stephanie, Melissa is very beautiful but I feel Jason would be much happier with Stephanie. Perfect little Family. OMG, Get Erica out of there...She is such a big beast.

DeAnna doesn't deserve a 2nd chance & Nikki is too much of a tattletale.  I love Stephanie as well but I don't think she is his type.  I'm routing for Jillian or Melissa & yes, get Erica the hell out of there.

I loved  DeAnna but was shocked she didn't pick Jason.  Yes, I think people make mistakes but Jason has moved on even if DeAnna hasn't.  DeAnna is prettier and more polished than almost all the girls this season.   This was a weak bunch.  Melissa is my pick.  Wonder who he'll pick.  That's why we watch.  

I can't wait until monday! it is going to be very good! for some reason i think Natalie is not going to get a rose! But we will see!

MICHELE.....HOW KUD U SAY THAT ABOUT STEPHANIE

I LIKE HER

SHES BEEN THRU A LOT IN HER LYFE, I CANT BELIEVE U WUD SAY SHE USES HER HUSBAND'S DEATH AS A "TRUMP CARD"

lmao...i hate erica 2 :P

NOT THE SHANNON FROM THE SHOW, WHAT A FRUITLOOP!!  I'M NOT IMPRESSED WITH THE GIRLS THIS SEASON.  AT FIRST, I WAS VERY IMPRESSED WITH THE WIDOW (4GOT HER NAME).  I THOUGHT WHEN SHE TOLD JASON THE STORY OF HER HUSBAND DYING, SHE WAS VERY SINCERE, AND HAD CLEARLY MOVED ON.  I THOUGHT THAT WAS REMARKABLE.  BUT, WHEN SHE TOLD THE OTHER GIRLS ABOUT IT, NOTICE HOW THE VERSION CHANGED AND BECAME SO MUCH LONGER AND EMOIONAL.  SEEMED LIKE SHE WAS USING IT FOR SYMPATHY.  

IF ITS TRUE THAT DEANNA COMES BACK AND WANTS ANOTHER CHANCE WITH JASON I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD JUST BLOW HER OFF.  EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, EVERYONE.  AND, HE WILL KNOW IF SHE'S SINCERE.  I GAVE A GUY A 2ND CHANCE, SO TO SPEAK.  WE HAVE NOW BEEN VERY HAPPILY MARRIED FOR OVER 2 YEARS.

I think he should pick Stephanie.  She is beautiful and mature. A perfect fit for him and someone who would be able to pick up the role of being Ty's mother very easily.

I think he should be with Steph...someone said she uses her husband's death as an advantage which she does talk about a lot, but the producers could ask her questions about it when shes on camera by herself.  I think she seems really sincere though when she talks about it, I don't think she was talking about it to get his attention, it is a big part of her life.  I like her because she doesn't seem to get involved with drama, she is nice to everyone so far, and she is much more mature.  I also like Melissa, but she might be a little to young, should might not really be ready to settle down.

P.S.  Megan kinda makes me want to Barf and Shannon is CRAZZZZY.  Not sure if she should help raise a child...SCARY.

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I hope Jason does not pick deanna. If they belonged together she would have picked him months ago. I hope he picks Melissa, Nikki, or Stephenie. Melissa is pretty and she seems to have a kind heart. Nikki is also pretty and she seems to be very mature and ready for a family. Stephine is also some what pretty and she already has a young daughter so her and Jason and Sophia (her daughter) and Ty (Jasons son) would make a wonderful family. Also Stephine and Jasons pasts are also similar because they both lost someone they loved dearly. I think they would make a perfect couple! :)

Shannon and Lauren make me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shannon does not know how to handle stress at all, and i dont think jason wants to deal with that, also she is just so crazy!!!!!!!!!! Lauren, i dont know what to think of her! My top three are Melissa, Jillian, and Stephanie. The thing i love about those three is that they dont crave for his attention all the time. i just like that a lot!

After seeing last nights episode my previous hope of Jason and Stephanie seems as though it could become reality.  What a cute family they could be.  I didn't know if Jason had more than admiration for her which I think a lot of people do.  But after tonight I could see a possibility for chemistry with them.  If he doesn't pick Stephanie I think she should be the next Bachelorette!

Stephanie is NOT the right girl for Jason. It is true she has been through a lot and she is a nice person, but that alone does not make her right for him, and just because she already is a mother, doesn't mean that the other women wouldn't be amazing mothers as well.  Besides, Jason isn't necessarily looking for a mother for Ty, he already has one.  They don't really have any chemistry beyond their parental bond, so you all are wrong.  I really just hope he gets rid of Megan soon; she is a nasty woman.

Megan is a psycho, and needs to go, NOW... and Shannon, can we say stalker?! and barfing- that was a bit extreme, and partially alcohol for sure! Stephanie was genuine when her daughter was there with her and Jason could see that, which is always appealing to someone with kids...but was it enough- and what was the deal with her "kissng trick"...that was hard to watch.. the spoiler is likely not true, they just want people to figure it out- and then change it up...but you never know

My aunt met Naomi, and she was fourth runner up. Thought i should tell you.

becca

you are right ....this is Terry from Fine Arts and Craft shows ....Although I love deanna and think she is smart well spoken and absolutely beautiful i think they would make a great couple  !!

terry

Thanks for agreeing with me:) If it isnt deanna who do you want it to be?

Well, Megan is gone.  Thank goodness.  She has a very fowl mouth.  That is not mother material.

They beeped her out every time she did an interview.

stephanie is the widow, you people dont really watch this show at all do you, melissa and stephanie both wear pinky rings on their right hands, there was an interview with stephanie by a hometown newsstation that shows pinky ring on her right hand, and i see no mole on the girls arm, i think its just a spot in the pictures! yall need glasses, YES he is engaged, duh the show is not live! you will just have to wait and see and stop speculationg! jealous much yall ! lol

The bachelor would not have shown a clip of the real proposal. I believe it was a fake. They want you to believe he picked Melissa. They have always tried to trick the viewer into leaning towards one girl and at the end, it is never who you think it is going to be. Think about it. Would they let you see what dress the girl had on in the first place. I think it is Stephanie.

I know for a fact it's melissa u can see the hand's. Step look's like she 80 years old. I know  for a fact it's melissa and molly at the end but mel will win....ps I work with her sister

I don't know man....I just don't see Jason with any of these girls and I watch every season and have never said that before. As much as I agree that "you snoose you lose", I still think it would be nice to see Jason and Deanna together. We all make mistakes and it is very possible that she regrets the mistake of not choosing Jason. Do we know for sure that Deanna is back for Jason and not just to say "I've been there and done that and made some mistakes" and offer to help him? I think I'm believing those of you that say he chose Melissa...For me, that's a bummer.

It has to be Melissa! If he does not chose melissa i will be pissed! A lot of people are saying it is a stand in when they showed the proposal, but if you have paid close attention to everyone of Melissa's features it is Melissa. Let's cross our fingers and hope it is.

I hope it isnt Molly or Naomi. Any of the other girls i am fine with.

I just so don't see Jason with any of the 5 remaining girls. Not to say they're not sweet girls but I just don't see it....He doesn't seem to have that "magic" connection he had with Deanna.

I think Jason &  Mel (as he calls her) have wonderful chemistry and she is the only girl who didn't flaunt herself all over Jason.  Jason seems to glow when he sees Mel. Mel is mature,funny,adventurous and ready to be a Mom.   She is also beautiful to boot. They're kids will be gorgeuos!

Melissa+Jason-obviously.

Naomi is pretty though, she looks like eva mendes! But i dont thinks shes ready for marriage. Jill is cute too and mollys just full of herself and sooo annoying!

In the previews Melissa's mom, and dad do not want to be on a public show. They live in Dallas, and I wonder if they are not a high profile family maybe??

Jason has to meet Melissa's friends now since her mom, and dad will not meet him! I wonder if that will change how he feels since he can't meet her family?

I would love to see Deanna, and him together! He should give her another chance since they are so perfect. She is human, and made a mistake as a lot of us have!

I wouldn't be happy in my life today if my husband had not gave me another chance. We have been happily married for 11 years, and I still get butterfly's in my stomach when I see him!!!

I want to see Jason with Jullian on the final rose.

She is more mature than others and better fit in his life.

On monday (Feb 2) episode they showed Melissa wearing the gold pinky ring again when the girls sat around calling Sophia (Stephanies daughter).  

Robin, her family is great and they attend my church.  I think it is great that she is honest with him and that may not meet them.  It's about HER...even though I do believe you marry into the family...he obviously can see she is magnificant.  A young lady who works with Melissa says that she gets flowers often and is super happy.  I suppose its her :).

Jason has not yet learned that the excitement of a new relationship, the limerance period, lasts only 6 months to two years.  Then in a good, loving relationship it turns into a deeper, lasting love.  Stephanie has more integrity, kindness, love, compassion and devotion than any of the 25 contestants.  She's beautiful in every way.  I think Jason made a great mistake when he let her go.  She's one in a million!

I believe Naomi will be the last women standing. If you watch the famous pinky ring vidoe. look carefully on the womens back left shoulder, you will catch a glimps of what seems to be a large tatoo hidding under the dress strap. Naomi has a tatoo in this area

Now it's down to Jillian, Melissa, and Molly.  So far  I like Jillian.  I can't picture Jason with Molly.  I see that a lot of people think it's Melissa.  Could be.  I would like to know now.  I definitley would still watch the show.

jason has to pick jill!!!!! shes adorable and sweet and her family isnt crazy like everyone else's. nothing is worse than having insane in-laws!

melissa seems young and she didnt introduce jason to her family which is a huge problem. Molly also has some psycho tendencies and i can tell that she is not a good fit for him!

jillian all the way!

and as for Deanna - she's a cocky *** anyways and doesnt deserve jason at all.

i really think that jason made a mistake. i wanted jillian to win so BAD!!!

I was sad to see Jillian go. She seems more mature and stable than Molly and Melissa. Molly just seems fake and too "smiley". It's unnatural and kinda creepy. Melissa is cute, but I think shes too young to be able to handle marriage to a single dad and having to be a stepmom to Ty. Sure things are perfect and romantic when they're going on these crazy, extravagant dates in these gorgeous fairytale settings...but once they get back to real life and the glamour and glitz is gone and the future Mrs. Mesnick has to deal with cleaning up Ty's throwup and temper tantrums which all little kids have...well I just don't think Melissa has the maturity to handle the reality of the situation. She may have fun playing "mom" and "wifey" for a little while, but ultimately I think if he chooses her its gonna end in a breakup eventually.    

I would love for the show to explode and him and Deanna get back together and I know that would be awful and mean to Melissa bc thats who he choose's but she is young and I really dont think it will last with them just like all the other Bachlor's before. By the time  the shows off the attraction's over.

jason is engaged to Molly always has been...100% positive..watch when the final show.."the Shocker" is aired...this show is ridiculous..melissa and abc know all about it...planned..boring..and dumb....

Sorry to spoil the SHOCKER FINALE but it is Molly...

NO WAY IS IT MOLLY!!!?? ... omg i will be so disappointed if it is molly... how are you 100% positive it is her.... are you just trying to throw everyone off here barbara?? i love melissa! she is just precious!

I think ABC plays Jason to be struggling with his "supposedly romantic feelings" for Melissa and Molly. I have a hunch that he is still torn about his connection with Deanna. Then again ABC will probably using Deanna to be the show shocker for ratings, it could be another candidate who may not even be Melissa or Molly. It could be one of the shows where there is a girl to return besides Deanna. I think that he should try to find his shot of love off the air. Deanna had her chance with him. She threw it all away. Even if they were to get together again, who to say it will last? What if she figured out he was becoming the next Bachelor, and wanted to end things with Jess? It's all ridiculous to me.

I really admired and enjoyed Stephanie on the show. Stephanie was a complete lady. You did not see her backbiting on anyone. I hate that they put Nikki and Stephanie on double dates. That had to be hard! I was really starting to admire Nikki too before she started getting way too obsessive about being perfect in everything and doing everything picture perfect in her life. I kept talking to the TV for her to relax. Just relax. I think she lost a lot of her chances because the other girls stole them away. Therefore she did not get a lot of her time with Jason. Same can be said for Stephanie. What awes me is how they brought Sophia on the show! I mean this says A LOT. What if it is Stephanie, and we all are just mistaken for it to be Melissa, Molly, or Deanna.

I still say Stephanie will make a great candidate for the next bachelorette if she is not secretly already Jason's #1. I really don't see Jason with any of the girls remaining, repeat of Deanna, etc. Many of them were too catty and not mature. They made it look more like a football game to tackle Jason and score. Who is really in it to be with Jason and Ty and not to just be the woman written in the Bachelor's history to win or to be the next bachelorette left brokenhearted at the Rose Final Ceremony?

I know ABC must be following these "soon to be" couples and any reunites very closely behind the scenes.

I concurr with veronica.  He made a big mistake letting Jillian go and he'll realize that with whomever he picks leaves him after reality sets in.  It's not Deanna even though the previews indicate to that effect.  They edit that piece to look like she made a mistake and that he hasn't proposed yet to the two remaining girls so he should pick her.  They do it for shock value and ratings and to keep you interested.  I'm sure it's Melissa because the girl they show him proposing to in the end has dark hair not to mention the mole and pinky ring.

i hope that he will be happy with anyone, this is the most importand thing.

Tonight’s much anticipated episode of The Bachelor is proving to be more and more interesting in the

I wish he choose Deanna or Molly.  

At the end of the "The Women Tell All" they showed previews for next weeks finale and it looks like they have another "After The Rose Ceremony" show on Tuesday night which they are tapping without a live audience.  I'm speculating that Jason dumbed Melissa after the finale because it didn't work out between them when reality set in.  Then he will proposes to either Molly or Deanna or Jillian or maybe Stephanie.

I think Jason is gay.

Why would deanna be coming back on the show to give advice to some1 she DUMPED!!!! Her and jason are engaged

The final doublecross is disgusting.  I'm done with the show.

There is another "After the Final Rose" episode on Tuesday. I hope they bring Jason's ex-wife. No wonder his first wife dumped this flake! This guy changes fiancees like most change their underwear. And all this bs about having to follow his heart. This guy is full of it.

I am so upset of Jason's lack of feelings for what he has done to Melissa.  Molly should feel horrible that she did not show an ounce of concern.  

Seattle is totally ashamed!

At first I thought he was the most boring bachelor, now I realize he is the creepiest. I wont be watching this show anymore, the producer knew what he was going to do. Jason humiliated that girl in public unnecessarily. A new low for the show, if I want to see that kind of classless drama I'll watch Jerry springer.

Jason is a turd

molly must be wierd just like he is and hard up for a man and to take him back shows that she does not even know what a man is!!!!!!

I THINK THAT JASON SHOULD GO BACK TO HIS EX WIFE, TY'S MOM) THATS STABILITY TO HIS SON.

THE ONLY ONE THAT SUFFERS WITH ALL THIS IS HIS SON Ty.

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It was Malissa,but he dumped her after the show aired--he is a Jerk--still says he in love with Molly--P.S.Malissa next Bachlorette

He sells insurance not a great catch,compared to other Bachalors--he is so not nice.

i think that everyone needs to realise that at the end of the day, the bachelor is a tv show, but there are peoples lives involved. we shouldnt be passing judgement on any of the bachelor's or bachelorette's decisions as we are merely spectators to their lives and should remain that way.