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I hope its not melissa. I dont mind her but i like nikki better. I also like stephanie but she seems too old for him. I think its cool that some people think they've figured it out but really only time will tell for sure. No one knows 100 percent. I am curious to see what everyone else thinks it ends up being.

it's melissa!!!!  in the preview of the proposal scene the girl has dark skin, dark hair, a pinky ring, and a mole.  it's melissa.  stephanie makes it to top 4.

Yup. 100% Melissa is the final lady that wins this season. Molly is runner up, and Jillian goes home 3rd place. Anybody who saw the preview would have noticed Melissa's DCC pinky ring in the proposal shot. Good luck to them both.<3

Are you kidding me?  The person you all are seeing in the final rose ceremony is a "stand-in".  No one has a clue who Jason's final pick will be.  Good luck with your speculations.  I don't rule out Deanna in the top contenders!  

I do agree that Deanna may be one of the top picks in the final rose ceremony! The suspense is killing me! However, if he chooses Melissa, I will be very happy! She seems like a good match for Jason!

I think it's Stephanie.  Look at the pinkie finger on the left hand as Jason is putting the ring on.  A very short nail bed and thick nail.  I am that is Stephanie.  So far, in the photos of Melissa, her nails don't look like that.  Anyway, Stephanie is really a better match for him.

I really hope it is either Melissa or Megan. They both seem like really nice girls and good picks for him. I hope its not Erica she seems like a psycho!!!!!! GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MELISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

I definitely think it's Melissa... if you look at the clips from when he proposes the lucky girl clearly has short fake nails... when Melissa and Jason were in the blimp Melissa is rubbing his leg and they show her hands.  It's the same short fake nails!  I hope it's Melissa... he even said it was the best most passionate kiss he's ever had!  I also can't wait to see what happens when Deanna comes back, I hope he tells her to take a hike!  She had her chance and she picked someone now all of a sudden she wants him back... she's a day late and a dollar short!

yeahh.ive started to love melissa.they seem to be very perfect for each other.i really hope that its gonna be melissa.shes extremely adorable,just like jason.shes nice and sweet.btw sherly,how do u know that molly is the runner up?wow,i really cant wait for the final.go mel!!

I would say it is Melissa for sure.  She looks like she is a sister to DeAnna.  Obivously his type.

I don't know how you guys can tell anything.  You're better than me or maybe I need glasses.  LOL!  I hope it's Melissa.  She is so down to earth and sweet.  She does seem a perfect match for him.  I like Stephanie too but I think seeing the two of them together with her daughter is possibly clouding my judgement.  I mean, who doesn't wish her a happily ever after as well?  I am still confused as to why they didn't bring Ty along on the birthday outing.  I would have loved seeing the four of them together and see how the kids got along.  Anyone else wonder about that?  Another thought...I think those girls really missed their mark when Shannen got upset and left the room.  As unstable as the poor girl is, one of those girls should have gone after her to console her.  Not only would it have been the right thing to do, it would have shown Jason that they had compassion.  They all failed in that respect and I was somewhat disappointed in all of them.  At any rate...I hope he finds his true love and gets his own happily ever after.  I loved Deanna, but found it hard to take her seriously after picking Jesse.  Clearly, they were not a good match.  She broke Jason and Jeremy's hearts.  I hope Jeremy gets to be the next bachelor and he and Jason both find the loves of their lives.

Hello

I google this exact phrase

"Jason Mesnick Chooses at the final rose ceremony"

** dont put any girls name in...just type as is and see what you get**

Honestly, I am not sold, reason being is that the editors of the show know how to play with our minds!  It is probably a trap!  How do we even know for sure  if the mole on the hand with the engagement ring is not just edited on the hand for speculation purposes.  Anything is possible in this world of reality TV special effects.  Why would the producers make it so easy by emphasizing Melissa's hands on her one on one date.  What if those hands weren't  even from that date!!!  What if the editors clipped different scenes from different dates and twisted them around making us think on purpose that it's Melissa when in fact it might even be Jillian's hands or Stephanie's from another date.  Trust me the producers are very sneaky!!  The winner could be Melissa but it could just as easily be Jillian, or Stephanie, Nikki or even Shannon!  You just never know...

I just think it is Melissa, I think her and Jason are perfect together. With all of the back stabbing going on in the house, Melissa stays to herself and does not talk badly about anyone. She's perfect Jason, go for it!!! Hope he doesn't pick Shannon, she might just vomit on him!! ugh

what happend to deanna returning to the show does anyone know

I hope it is Melissa but on the episode that aired on the 19th it shows scenes from the next episode and at the rose cermony it shows her without a rose and jason says "I can't give out the final rose" but i so hope that they are just fooling us on that episode and hope that he proposes to Melissa.

You could tell from her finger nails in the preview...it is Melissa!

I wish him all the happiness no matter who he picks...he seems like such a beautiful person with a lot to give...I hope he finds an everlasting love.  He  & Ty deserve it.

I surely hope that Jason finds true love...I thinkk that Stephanie adores Jason.  It will be difficult for a single woman to become an instant second Mom.  I know that men do it all the time but I do believe it's a lot different for younger women.  It's a big step and I hope that Jason takes heed!

    Just curious...religion and faith has never been brought up...wonder why?  Large part of a relationship!!!

Totally agree with the comment about faith!! that is soooooooooo important in a relationship.   PS i hope it is Melissa she is my favorite

please pick deana papas.

I think its stephanie because if you have dvr you will notice that the girl he proposes to has french manicured nails, melissa never has had french manicured nails since the season started abd there is only a couple of girls with that type of nails one of them being stephanie.  And if you look in the last episode when Jason takes Stephanie and her daughter to lego land while riding the ride that went up and down you can see a pinky ring on stephanie's right hand!

melissa always has french manicure in all the episodes, don't you look...

no, melissa doesnt always have french manicure DONT YOU LOOK, in the spoiler video that this fool has out showing melissa, her nails are short and painted some god aweful color!

Yup Melissa does have the fake nails!  Plus in tonights episode they kissed again and next week looks gooooood!!! Still rooting for Mel and J(plus ty)

Does nobody find stephanie's face weird?  She's definitely had too much work done.  Something tells me she's a lot older than she says.

The chemistry betwwen Melissa and Jason is AMAZING.  Melissa is the one. She is real and has the heart that Jason is looking for. She is not only absolutely beautiful but mature and the only one who doesn't throw herself at Jason.    Jason says he falls in love with two women, I'm not sure who the other one is....

 In the 1st episode they showed a glimpse of scenes to follow...he was proposing to a girl in a light blue dress (he was on his knee).  

I am very sure that is Melissa the women that jason chose to be with him the rest of his life...... I happy that he chose melissa because she was on of my favorites after nikki...

I am curious to see why in next weeks episode he calls and "mel" gets upset

Ive googled Stephanie (Hogan...her last name) nothing about her winning pops up.

Ive google Melissa (Rycroft) dozens of sites opened up about her winning

Its definitely a brunnette...and she is shorter than Jason.

I dont think its stephanie.. she is taller than Jason..they have good communication... but I dont think the physical attraction is there. They just seem like they would be better friends than lovers.

I hope its not Deanna...she said no to him.. he should kick her to the curb!!!

Stephanie was wearing a ring on her pinky on monday's show when they were dancing.. hmmm

All I know is that the previews, episodes, and what really happens do not coincide ... Even though I do have a favorite ... which is Melissa... I am not holding my breath on this one.  

You guys are good!  I didn't even notice the mole.  The only thing I noticed was that it was a brunet with thin arms and it appeared when he was down on one knee that she was wearing a light blue dress.  This rules out Molly, she's not a brunette.  And by the hair, my guess is either Jillian or Melissa.  Both are great girls but I'm rooting for Mellissa....she seems like a perfect match for him.

Look at this picutre of Deanna.  Curious mole on her left arm too?

http://tv.msn.com/tv/gallery/bachelor-retrospective/?photoidx=2

I totally hope it's Melissa, she 's my fav of the DCC, and that pinkie ring, is a DCC thing.  She's super sweet, and totally cute!

We've been speculating since the premiere of The Bachelor 13 that Jason Mesnick, chooses Dallas Cowboys

I'm dying to know why Mel is stood up by Jason in the next episode... Does anyone know?  Is this when Deanna shows up?

Yeah your right i don't know if he does it because of Deanna but here is what i am thinking....in the description for next weeks episode it says he takes one on a plane ride which we know is Naomi...then it ssays he takes one on a houseboat i thought that was Mel but then in the sneek peek he calls and it says one girl meets his son....so what i am thinking is he takes Stephanie on the houseboat instead of Mel later in the week and the next day Mel meets Jason.....Plus in one preview it shows Jason and Stephanie with a boat wheel

Yeah,very possible... I'm just curious to know what happened. Mel played it cool in the preveiw and it looked like Jason was near water when he called Mel, didn't it?  I just don't see Jason & Stephanie as romantic together.  I know she wants him bad but she is to high maintence for Jason. He likes the fun,down to earth women. Do you think Deanna returns on tomorrow nights episode?  I can't wait until tomorrow night!  

Here's my prediction:

Next episode, Naomi goes.

F4=Stephanie

F3=Jillian

F2=Molly

F1=Melissa

P.S. I dont think Deanna will figure into the picture at all ...

I agree with your predications, Sunny....

I believe Jullian has a good chance to be choosen by Jason.

I LOVE MELISSA! i would be so disapointed if he didnt pick her, i loved stephanie but she just looked a little to old for him. Naomi seems too naieve and not all into it as the other girls. Molly is nice but theres something about her idk i just cant see them together and jillian idk i feel like she to much older looking for him as well and i can tell he had doubts with her this last show. so go go go melissa i hope he can see past not being able to meet her parents because its not her fault and it shouldnt be used against her.

With everything I've seen on the internet it seems Melissa is the winner.  I haven't seen every episode and missed the previous ones with Melissa's dates with Jason, but from tonight's episode, it seemed like Jillian and Molly were neck and neck.  Best wishes to all of them.  In the videos I've seen on the internet, the lady looks like Deanna.  But Melissa looks most like Deanna than the rest, so I guess it's her.  I'm just wondering what is up with the next episode, which makes me wonder if Melissa will make it to the final two.

I knew Stephanie would be going home. She is  very sweet but not for Jason.   I think Jillian or Naomi will be going home next.   Jason falls in love with Mel & Molly but he will pick Mel.  

It is not Mels fault if her parents don't want to meet Jason on TV and I think Jason (being the great guy he is) will feel bad for Melissa.

I wonder when Deanna entered into an episode?

Deanna will probably show at the final 3 or final 2 episode, hence Jason wheeping over the balcony.  Right when things can't get any harder for him, she'll make an appearance to confuse him even more!  Hopefully he gives her the kiss off.  As for Stephanie, I think she is the most courageous, humble, genuine human being to ever apppear on ANY bachelor season.  She showed the other girls how it's done and how to accept it when you dont get things your way.  Full class and grace!  Good for her.  I hope she finds true happiness.  As for Jason, he's definitely the best Bachelor the show has had because unlike previous bachelors, he doesn't want to lead anybody on, and that says alot about a person.  Best of luck to him, and I hope for his sake he makes the right decision, because judging from next weeks preview there seems to be a lot of skeletons coming out of their closets ....

Jullian is the best for him.

Jason is a single Dad. It's not too much spase for a romance in his real life.

He will belong his future wife(for 100%) only at night time. Are girls 24--25 y.o.

ready for that? I don't think so! It's about a LOT of responsibilities and be

VERY PATIENT !

Real life with single Dad, who has personality like Jason is about to be around

his child!

Jullian is older than others and more mature. I hope their relations will grow

and they will be together

Well, I think for sure it is Melanie...Now...I was really hoping for Stephanie, But like alot have stated...it seemed that the spark was not there for Jason. I have to say...Stephanie has the most class and grace of any non winner I have ever seen on any of these type of shows. I think it is something about Southern upbringing..That also is reflected in her ideals about pleasing her man and being there to make her husband happy. She is truly a wonderful person. I have read up on her and WOW..she has been through alot and it has made her, I am sure, have this type of outlook on life. I surely wish she could have been the one for Jason but I do think Melanie is cute..I do not know if she is totally ready though, but we all shall see! I think Steph should be the next Bachelorette..but I don't think she would do it. Good luck to all the girls...and Jason really looks as if he is enjoying this...

Amanda, I dont mean to be rude but who is Melanie?

I heard that Deanna and Jason were actually still together-despite Jason being on the show. I heard (hopefully im wrong!) that ABC wanted Jason to become the next bachelor, and that Deanna even told the producers that she was in love with Jason.. so supposedly Deanna chose the other guy for cash-and her and Jason are leading some sort of secret life together.. and that Jason and Mellisa and Jillian were paid to be part of this season's bachelor. And that Melissa and Jillian will be the bottom two-and he'll ask melissa to marry him, and then they "brake up" and then he's "back together" with Deanna again.. i hope this isn't true because I really love the show-and i love the real love in it! and if it isn't real.. then it's such a disappointment, although I did want Jason and Deanna to be together from the beginning -it wouldn't be right to put all of these other women (not to mention TY) through this whole thing again-if it were for nothing. I HOPE THIS ISNT TRUE!

When is the final rose ceremony?

It isnt true Holly. Jason and Melissa are engaged and happy.  DeAnna is alone and trying to stretch her 15 minutes.  

Does anyone know if Deanna will be on the next episode?  I feel bad for Melissa that he rparents won't allow Jason to visit. It's not her fault though.  Darlene, I hope it is true but how do you know Jason & Melissa are engaged?

Does anyone have any clue where Melissa got that blue/black dress she wore for the rose ceremony last night??  I <3 it!

I totally agree that its isnt Mels fault but I cant wait for Deanna to come drama Drame drama!!!!  I think final rose ceremony is the 16

My theory... Pictures of Jason in engagement alone pics are he being dubbed in. Curious that ring shown is from Dee season. Actual engagment takes place in states but the drama around all this still eludes me. But pretty clever cover up for ABC.  Still wonder what all the mystery for Jason and Mel finally getting to their engagement is all about.  hmmmmmm

PSS, I think KMoon being from Dallas also might be Mels friend which you usually need to get on one of these shows so she may have known Jason a little before the show. So between her and Dee, they know he loves Mel and if she has left, he has to go after her. think i need some sleep..

I think I am rethinking my earlier prediction that Molly and Melissa will be the F2.  This after what Jason had to say about Jillian and that she could potentially break his heart, and I am thinking that this is where Deanna will factor into play.  He will need her advice, being that she was in that position before, aka Graham and Jeremy.  I think Jason's really into Jillian and wants to be sure the feelings are reciprocated.  So I am thinking at F3 he will be in a dilemma over who to bring at F2 between Molly and Jillian. Which in my opinion Jillian is the better choice for him. She just seems more real.   I think Molly is pretty much saying everything she thinks Jason wants to hear, so he isn't really getting to know her. She just sounds so rehearsed when she talks! I'm just surprised she's made it this far cause I think Nikki would've been a better choice to have in the top 3.  Who knows, the dilemma might not even be between Jillian and Molly, it might even be at F2, with whomever is left and Melissa. In any case, I believe this will be the reason for Deanna's appearance.  Obviously in true ABC manner they have to spice up the previews just to cling us in!!!

If I remember correctly, from the previews they showed from the very beginning of this season,  the girl Jason proposes to is wearing a blue dress.  Deanna wore a blue dress last year at the final rose ceremony when she dumped Jason and had Jesse propose.  I think the scene that they are showing may be a clip from last year.

Last two will be Melissa and jullian for sure, I really want to see him with

Jullian in the end. Melissa is a little too young to merried man with a child...

But the girl in the blue dress is hugging jason and the look HAPPY.

Cat, you should google 'Youtube Bachelorette final rose part 1' ... you'll see a complete different setting.  Deanna's dress was more of a darker turquoise, the dress in the preview is light blue!  So I dont think it's a clip from the Bachelorette, although they did use some Bachelorette clips in the promos when they showed Deanna crying and sitting on a couch and Jason just sits next to her, and the two of them on top of a building.  That's all previous season, cause if you pay attention, Deanna has shorter hair when she comes to visit Jason, and in the intimate scenes she has longer hair, which were clips from last season.  That's why they refer to the previews as the 'teaser promo' ... but the Final Rose is definitely NOT from last season.

The more I watch the show the more I am rooting for Jillian.  I also noticed she has a ring on her right hand too.  Not a pinky ring, but it's on her fourth finger, and pretty shiny too.  The final rose proposal in the preview was shown too quickly to be able to tell weither it was a pinky ring on the right hand or a ring on the fourth ringer.  Regardless, I am definitely keeping my fingers crossed for Jill!

I think Jillian is the best pick!  They compliment one another so well!

I think Mel will win!!!! i think all the comments bout him not being with her are to trick you

After the last episode, my opinion has changed a bit.  I also saw the chemitry with Jillian.  She is mature,loving,classy and strong.  The family opened their hearts to Jason.  THey could be good together.....but, I'm still not convinced that Jason won't pick Melissa.  She is a thought person and they have the best connection.

I have a feeling that the finale, regardless the outcome, will be a shocker.  I also hope Jason ends up with Jillian.  I find the mystery behing Melissa's family a bit odd.  I understand the whole privacy thing, but when her friends said they have ever met her family??  Weird ... and the fact that her parents never came to support her at a cheerleading performance?  If I were Jason I'd be seeing alot of red flags.  Too mysterious ... nonetheless it's obvious how physically attracted he is to her, but I think that's about it.  I find she lacks substance.  We know absolutely nothing about her except the fact she used to be a Dallas Texas Cheerleader!  As Jason puts it, she seems too perfect!  And NOBODY is perfect ... I just hope he doesn't make the same mistake Deanna did.

I agree with the mysteroiusness of Melissa's parents.  Melissa's freinds say she is a great person and she underestimates herself.  She's seems genuine  but Jillian (as her parents said) has depth to her which shows her heart. She has alot to offer Jason and Ty.  

I can't wait to see the episode with Deanna... Does anyone think it will be next week?

Yes, Deanna will make her appearance in New Zealand.  As Chris Harrison puts it, 'the biggest twist in Bachelor history'.

Any comments on what the twist may be?

I think it will only be about Deanna making an appearance.  The editors might've been playing with her words.  She might of said she made a mistake but it's probably not in the context that we think it is.  She might be referring to something else.  I personally don't think she is there to win Jason back.  That would just really be a cruel joke to show up like that at F3 knowing that emotions are flying around enough as it is!  Poor F3 girls ... it must've sucked for them to see Deanna this late in the game.

I have from a VERY good source that he chooses Melissa BUT Melissa has an ex boyfriend she broke up with right before the show because he would not commit. Well when she returns home the ex boyfriend proposed and Melissa broke it off with Jason. Which is why her parents would not appear on the show, they were aware that Meliisa did not have the right intentions. Makes me sad for Jason.

I went to school with Melissa...he does choose Melissa but the ex b/f story up there isn't true. Jason and her are still together.

If he chooses Melissa is Jilian the other one he falls in love with?  I feel bad at this point when they have to go home.  To fall in love and then be sent home... Ouch!

ABC says the final rose ceremony will be a "shocker"

That tells me it isnt going to be a simple "pick melissa" scenario. Plus DeAnna makes an appearance and I believe she tells Jason she made a mistake. I dont think she is telling that to Jason to get back together.

Its to tell Jason he blew it by voting off Jillian (final two are melissa and molly).

Cut to scene with Jason crying. He realizes he made a terrible mistake by voting off Jillian. Remember, Jason admits that Jillian is the one that could break his heart. She scares him.

The "shocker" is that Jason sends both Melissa and Molly home. But then Jillian comes back and accepts Jason's proposal.

I know there are some pics that make it appear Melissa gets the ring but I disagree. Ive seen a ring on the 4th finger of Jillian. Also Jillian is about the right height and has the dark hair color. It could easily be Jillian in that final rose ceremony.

Lets not discount the fact though that we're getting a shocker unlike any other in Bachelor history (according to ABC). That alone tells me the rose ceremony isnt going to be cut and dry and simple.

We definitely know its not Molly. She is too tall and blonde so that totally rules her out. That leaves just Jillian or Melissa and my money is on Jillian.

Jillian just makes more sense for Jason. She works in Vancouver so its possible she could keep her job and stil live in Seattle. She is more age appropriate, 29 to Jason's 32. And her family gives her an edge over Melissa and the whole mess she has.

So to recap, Melissa and Molly make the final two. DeAnna comes back to tell Jason he just made a big mistake (like she did) voting off Jillian. Jason tells ABC he wants Jillian back. Jason sends melissa and molly packing and then we're shocked to see Jillian walk down the path. Jason proposes.

Wow,It's possible. I can't wait to watch tonight.

Why would they show the light blue dress??? As soon as I see the light blue dress I will know who the winner is. IMO it doesn't make any sense that ABC would ruin the uncertainty of the final show!!!!

Im not going to look at the dress as a clue. ABC has really manipulated editing to give false impressions.

For example, the season preview clip before the 1st episode. It gives us the impression that DeAnna is on top of the balcony with Jason. The girls are down below making comments like "she is so obessed with him". We know it wasnt DeAnna up there and the girls werent referring to DeAnna as the one obsessed.

ABC has been trying to build up the idea that DeAnna wants Jason back and makes a last ditch attempt to win him back. Clever editing really but its not true. DeAnna is simply there to tell Jason not to make the same mistake she did.

Shocker ending unlike anything seen on the Bachelor. So much in fact that ABC just announced they are adding another After the Show segment the following night

http://www.tvguide.com/News/ABC-Plans-Extra-1002814.aspx

Its got to be Jillian coming back. ABC has set us up to believe its Melissa

Wow Jesse ... I totally LOVE that scenario!  I am a 100% Jillian fan!  Hope it's true .. that would definitely make for Bachelor history and make alot of viewers happy.  I personally know alot of people that are disappointed at the so-called spoiler videos that it might be Melissa, and franky so am I ... I like Melissa but honestly it would be too obvious if it's her.  It would just be too cliché for the Bachelor to end up with the Cheerleader.  It just doesn't have a nice ring to it.

I wouldnt put any weight behind those spoiler guesses. They are based on a heavily edited video preview for the season.

If you look back at that video, its very clear ABC did some serious editing to manipulate viewers impressions.

So its silly to assume an arm with a mole or a ring on a finger is any proof. So I base my guess on what we know now.

What we know is its definitely not DeAnna. She is still running around Hollywood parties trying to milk an extra 15 minutes of fame.

Anything else is a mere guess. Its even possible that Molly wins. The video shows a brunette hugging Jason from a great distance but dont forget ABC likes to edit and manipulate things. That hug could be just a good-bye to Melissa or Jillian after Jason tells them good-bye. We dont really know if thats a hug from his future bride, we just assumed it.

ABC says its a shocker so that means something we dont expect to happen. Well what do we expect ? Clearly most expect Melissa to win and ABC led us to believe Melissa is the frontrunner.

So my guess would be that Melissa cant win, she is too obvious.

That leaves us with Molly or Jillian.

Molly is just too young in my opinion and doesnt have much in common with Jason.

Jillian makes a lot more sense for Jason. And clearly Jason likes her. Jilllion didnt face a rose ceremony minus a rose until week 4.

I thought I saw Deanna return to Jason in the preview for the Bachelor.  Did that episode take place already or has it yet to happen.  Pleas let me know because, I keep looking for it to happen or did I miss it already?  Thanks

Good point.  Really hope your predictions are true!  I also noticed the ring on Jillian's fourth finger and I got excited about that.  Molly is just annoying.  Those rehearsed speaches and telling Jason everything he wants to hear, hope he sees through that.  

I don't want to believe Jason choose Melissa! Even you went to school together

(i'm not sure it's truth!), Melissa can not reveiled it yet! How do you know?!

BS!

Tonight’s drama-filled episode of The Bachelor isn’t even over yet and already tensions are running high.

my guess is that jillian comes back and he chooses her. why on earth would he choose melissa. she just dropped the "i love you" cause she knows she was screwed cause of her weird parents who have never even met her best friends. seriously something is obviously wrong with that girl

Jason may be preparing for another broken heart if he chooses the bartender/climber/high emotional maintenance-which is why she did not like Jesse - Deanna. If he chooses her, then he deserves her.

Now melissa, what is he thinking?? She is another emotional train wreck, cries a the drop of a hat. Ah....love is blind.

Not sure what all the lights dimming and candles at the next episode means, but it must be a tear jerker.

I can see the point about the pinky ring, unfortunately it looks like Melissa at 24 yeah she is really ready, alway a bridesmaid never a bride, dumpee even her friends husbands want her married, they all must be tired of the poor me stories.

I could see tonight Jason likes Jullian, but he is not in love with her :(

I believe he made his mind a long time ago, but he has to follow" scenario".

I did't want to believe in that for along time, but now it's obviously - Melissa :(

The question is if she is really ready to married single dad?...

Actually after announce I believe Jason will meet Melissa's parents, but we won't see it. It what Chris meant when he said "we respect their privacy and leave behind the screen".

I don't really like that in this time a lot of things are so predictable.

I was totally believing Melissa was the one Jason would pick becasue they have wonderful chemisrty but after the last episode my opinion was leaning toward Jilian as a lifetime partner.  She is mature,classy,and ready for a commitment.  I think Jason will realize that he made a mistake by letting Jilian go.  I still love the chemisty between Jason and Melissa but it takes more than chemitry for a marriage.

I really hope that Jason crying over the balcony is from guilt of letting Jillian go.  Neither Molly or Melissa in my opinion are stepmom material.  They are both cute and quirky, but seriously!  And then he goes on to contradict his own words when he clearly said he is NOT looking for a fling or a 6 month relationship? .. ah hello??  You just sent home the only one that was long term relationship material!  It seems that he's unfortunately fallen in the same trap Deanna did.   I think Jason got caught up in the overwhelmingness of the 'process' and forgot why he's really there.  He does have chemistry with Melissa and Molly, no doubt, but don't forget these girls are not pulling out any stops because they both want to be picked so it's obvious they are saying all the things he wants to hear in order to get the final rose.  But is that real love?  To me its more like watching a competition, like who says I love you more ...

I really hope Jillian comes back because I don't think Molly or Melissa are really ready to be a mommy to Ty and to settle down with all the responsibilities!  I know at 24 I really wasn't ready to be mommy  and I wanted to still heve my life and do whatever I wanted!  You can't really do that with kids!

he does choose melissa but then dumps her in the "after the final rose" for molly.

such an ***. totally lost respect for him after that.

Too many theories and too much drama ... whatever the case I lost interest ever since Jillian was sent home.  I honestly thought this was going to be one of those fairy tale love stories, like Trista and Ryan, but I guess not.  The potential was there though ... such a shame.

How do you know Jason dumps Melissa arafter the rose ceremony?  I hope that doesn't happen.  I can't see him ending up with Molly....

Unfortunately, I'm beginning to believe it is Molly ... yuck ...  another Bachelor season down the gutter ...

I've noticed that ABC always gives a bad edit of the person the Bachelor ends up choosing just to make us NOT like her on purpose and to promote the shocker factor so that when the final gal is chosen our mouths all drop.  

It's time this show give us a real fairy tale happy ending as the  ''shocker'' for change and quit giving us a soap opera edit ...

I suspect the weeping over the balcony is a just another red herring, probably not even related to DeAnna.  If he goes back to idiot, he's more of an idiot than he appears.  I rather think he will end up with Melissa if only because this is not at all a confident man.  He seems to have an especially strong need to be needed.  (We all want to be needed; his need is out there!)

Melissa is young and bubbly and within his comfort zone, whereas Molly may be too strong for him. Jillian was not only too strong, but there never did seem to be any real chemistry. I am not seeing red hot chemistry with Molly either. And while she may have opened up, a blind man could see he would be working hard for a long time to come, to draw her out.

The producers go to great lengths to mislead viewers, so doubtful we can even get a realistic sense of any of it.  Nevertheless, Melissa's the one he will end up, I'm thinking. If he dumps Molly to be there -- or vice versa -- then he's had more than a fair shot at making any of this work for him.

I had respect for Jason and I'm becoming a bit jaded by the drama of it all.  I hope he doesn't break Melissa's heart.  She seems genunie to me...

Maybe the wheeping happens after the proposal to Melissa, if he indeed proposes to her ... who knows.  But why would they omit showing the proposal in the previews at the before last show?  

Something is up, or ABC wants us to think something is up.  I am having a hard time swallowing the whole Molly story about Jason dumping Melissa for her.  Seems way too far fetched.  

He definitely doesn't propose to her because he was hugging a brunette at the FRC.  But apparently all the drama happens at the ATFRC.  Still,  it just doesn't add up.  

I am still hoping Jesse's theory is true because Jason is hugging a brunette at the end, and if it isn't Melissa, the only other girl it can be is Jillian.  

The only reason why I am still keeping my fingers crossed on this theory is based on his reaction after he let her go. Those were tears of regret or remorse, I'm thinking.  

I don't see why Jason would propose to someone if he is unsure about who he is choosing .. what would that say about him?

I wonder if Jason's ex wife had any input on any of this? After all, They have a child to consider....

I totally think that conspiracy by that steve guy is a total pile of bull s#@! I totally do not see jason doing that one to melissa 2 espcially after what DeAnna did to him i think his feelings for Mel are genuine

I'd like to believe Jason wouldn't do that to Melissa either.   I just want to kmow what the Twist is, or as ABC puts it, the final episode will be it will be insane and Freakish?

I hope Jason wouldn't be that hurtful after all he knew how it felt to be dumped.

I read somewhere that CH said that the RSteve rumors are untrue.  I really hope so, cause that would just be sickening if Jason did that!  

One of my friends thinks Jason will decide to be with Deanna.  

I hope he decides he wants to be with Jillan.  

I think I need a coffee, this season is giving me a headache ...

AMEN,Sunny!

I'm stressing way to much over this drama.....Whi is CH?

CH is the host, Chris Harrisson ... I abbreviated it cause I wasn't sure how to spell the last name .. lol

Do you guys know how many of the previous bachelor couples have lasted? just curious

I seriously think we need to suck back and take a deep breath for a second or two.  We can't honestly think for a second that anyone with a brain would risk on national TV with a son at his side to come out and make himself look like a fool let alone Melissa and/or Molly?  Could it be that Melissa's parents will suddenly appear?  Could it be that either gal left the first one said NO? No matter what and with whom Jason ends up with, it appears they are very happy today.... The Deanna angle and Jason appearing to cry over the balcony are in my opinion a side show in itself! The mystery in my view resides between Melissa, Molly and Deanna themselves where perhaps an incident involving the two finalists and Deanna took place! As they say only in Hollywood that could come with twists and turns, let’s stay tune shall we?

At the end of the last episode in the previews, the host Chris said that they have a tape that both parties didnt want shown until now.

What do you think this hidden/unrevealed tape is about??????

Ive been trying to think what they have kept hidden this whole time.

BUT what does everyone think this hidden tape is about????

I think its

A) Melissa introduces her parents and they wanted it to be on the low-down

B) he chooses DeAnna? I dont know why he would pick her though

C) he doesnt choose either girl and he is left alone... crying???

what else does anyone think this hidden video is about

cant believe its 2 weeks away from the FINALE...!! cant hardly wait

OMG! its totally going to by Melissa. I knew it from the start it was going to be her. But i also was cheering for Naomi. But oh well I guess everyone can't have eveerything.

It was be interesting to hear what all the girls have to say tonight....

OMG! I hope Melissa wins. I don't think Molly is very good for Ty or Jason. But I can't wait until the Final Rose next Monday! It will be soooo dramatic! Anyway, how does anybody know who he chooses, just wait one more week and everyone will know who gets engaged with JASON!!!!!***

Tonight’s much anticipated episode of The Bachelor is proving to be more and more interesting in the

4 more days!  

3 more days.

2 more days!

Tomorrow is the big day!   I hope he picks Melissa and keeps her!

JASON IS SUCH A SCUMBAG!!!!! I cant believe he did that to Melissa on national television.. why couldnt he have broken up with her before????

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Jason is a bit of an a**hole for dumping Melissa on 'National TV'. I doubt he was contractually bound to do that.

I don't think it'll work with Molly either. No doubt she's in love with him, but she seemed a bit to desperate to fall back into his arms at the first sign of trouble with Melissa. They're both lovely girls though.

Jason, you will reap what you've sown.  What a horrible thing you did to someone you "fell in love with" and propose marriage.

I wonder why your ex-wife ended your marriage.   Melissa, You will do better!

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i think jason made the biggest mistake of choseing melissa then dumps her a choses molly

i think jason made the biggest mistake of choseing melissa then dumps her a choses molly

Jason is dumb...i always liked him now i think he is messed up in the head and doesnt know what he wants so he should stop trying until he does...MELISSA you are awesome don't take it to heart!

Jason, your choice was made by your male parts.

Melissa, I pray you will find a real man who has a good heart.

Jason is an  ***!

I hate melissa I love Molly