I think Jason made a horrible mistake, and I hope that next week's "drama" is when he realizes that Jillian is the one and he'll bring her back and propose to her. Go Jillian!!

Head held high, Jillian....you were amazing!!!

Jason is an idiot!

As usual, an American show, that will not let them chose a Canadian to be chosen. Jillian was the right pick. Hopefully they can make her the next Bachelorette.

Jason has blown it!  Who on this green earth would even consider marrying a girl whose parents won't even meet him!!!!  I was stunned last week when he picked her to remain on the show!  Brother!  I may not waste any more time watching this season's Bachelor!  Poor Ty!

Jason: You made a big mistake. Jillian is the real deal: gorgeous,  fun, smart and you let her go!!! Hopefully, DeAnna will smack some sense into you.

Click Here to read about Jason sending home Jillian! Tonight’s dramatic episode of ABC’s The Bachelor

I think Melissa is the right choice for Jason!  She's the only one who has truly gone out and has done something for Ty and takes more of an interest not only in Jason but in Ty as well!  Jillian was adorable however, she didn't seem like she was really in love with Jason and never mentioned Ty.  I don't think Molly is the right choice only due to Jason likes to snuggle and be close to the one he's with and she definitely is not the cuddling type!  I'm happy for Melissa!  I just wish her parents would get over the publicity part of it!  It's their daughter's happiness in the end that counts and they should want to be a part of this!  This could be their potential son-in-law!  

Wow! I just knew that jillian was going to be the at the end! I hope Jason doesn't look back and wish he had kept her...but I honeslty believe thats the case...I think he was so intimidated by a strong woman who knows what she wants and who she is! i don't think because she was more reserved means she didn't care...i think it showed how serious and genuine she really is. I wish them all the best, but, I am so afraid that Jason is regretting letting Jill go already. She deserves better. She was as open and real as they get...but, unfortunately, some people don't always want that. Good luck Jill! you deserve the true thing! I'm hoping for Molly. I really do think he did a great job with his selection. They were all great girls!

I'm disappointted in Jason.  Jillian was the class of the Bachelorettes!

Its a shame Jason didn't see the real potential in their relationship.  Either of the other women look like gigglling school girls that have a lot of life to live before they are reay for a grown up relationship.  This beautiful, adventurous and grounded  woman could have been a true partner.

Go figure!

Make Jillian the next Bachelorette!  She is one of the most inspiring women I have ever seen on this show -- strong, smart, funny, confident -- any guy would be lucky to have her!  Let the next 25 guys fight for her!!

While Jillian was mature and pretty, there was never really a physical connectiong between Jason and Jillian that ignited.  The friendship was most definitely there but for Jason it was about being more.  I think Jillian will be just fine and can find love on her own.

It was sad to see Jason let go another woman tonight but being it was the right decision.  His eyes light up when Melissa is in the room and she is full of love, hugs and laughter.  She has openned up and I can see her being a good person to his son and having the three of them a good life together.  As for Melissa's parents, I do not see that as a hinderance.  They are private people and thankfully are alive and in her life.

Molly is a nice person but the scene at the Country Club took Jason by surprise.  He is more adventerous and appreciates the little things in life.  Molly looked uncomfortable there as if she did not spend her days there often.  As for her parents, Jason was a gentleman but her mom tried too hard.  I did not see affection between the two parents and made me realize how important this was for Jason to have with whoever he ends up with.

I wish Molly and Melissa the best as they are both beautiful and kind people.  As for Jason he is an amazing father and just needs that special person so that he can have love again.

Jason is an idiot. He is just intimidated by a strong woman.

I hope she's the next Bachelorette.

He's gonna pick Melissa - he said it himself. She reminds him of both Deanna and his ex-wife. Ugh. Doesn't he think that it's weird that a girl's best friend has never met her parents?

Jason is a complete fool.  Jillian is beautiful, intelligent and showed real heart and soul unlike the other two, they are way immature, but hey seems like Jason is too after sending Jillian home, obviously he's not thinking with his head!!.  At the end of the show when each girl did a short video, all Melissa talked about was herself, typical of someone so into herself, she is not ready to become a Mother to a child that isn't herrs.  Molly and Melissa may think they are ready to settle down and become a Mother to Ty, but I can say as a Mother myself, behind closed doors its a whole different ball game, takes lots of hard work and dedication, won't be like it is now in the public eye, taken to beautiful romantic places, you may think this show is reality, but you wait, real reality will come when the cameras are switched off and you just have to get on with it!  I'll be watching this space in a couple of years time to see if the girl Jason chooses has gone the distance.  

Im going to Canada asap and marry Jillian! She is smoking HOT!!

What a shocker.  I was sooo disappointed in Jason tonight.  How could he let Jillian go?? There is not even a competition at this point.  He just let the best one go.  Foolish.  She was my favorite from the beginning and he should know that depth in women lasts longer than just a passionate kiss which he also had with Jillian!  I changed what I thought of Jason tonight.  He is not the guy I thought he was.  Disappointing.  I do not really care to watch the rest except the Deana drama.  I like Melissa but Molly is horrendous.  Fake. Seems like she can barely convince herself that she 'loves' him.  He believes everything that they say to him.  I don't trust Molly's intentions.  GO JILL- you will find a better guy than Jason!

I was SHOCKED when Jason sent Jillian home. It just proves that some men don't know how to pick them... Jillian is smart, independent, established, funny, kind, GORGEOUS... and instead he chooses the 24 year old sorority girl and the 25 year old cheerleader?!? And Jason wonders why his relationships never seem to work out. MEMO TO JASON: YOU PICK THE WRONG KIND OF GIRL!!

I am 100% in favor of Jillian being the next bachelorette. She deserves her shot at happiness.. And I think she's too good for Jason!

PS: Anybody else think it's weird that Melissa's best friends had never met her parents?! Something is fishy about that...

I liked Jason because I thought he was making such good decisions.  He's dead to me now.  Bring Jillian back as the next Bachelorette!

I think Jillian ROCKS!! She`s sooo much classier than all the other girls. Jason has a bad history of falling for the wrong chicks (ie`: Deanna and obviously, his ex-wife).  Jillian is way too good for him.  She realllyl should be the next Bachelorette because she`s everything a woman should be! Jason is just so blind but I`m sure that all the guys watching the show won`t be and realize that she has the potential to be the next Bachelorette!

PS/ Canadian girls rock!

Jillian is awesome...I hope she finds true love!  I would love it, if they made her the next Bachelorette.  I would definitely watch every episode.  It would be a major hit!

When Jillian said that she has experienced life and was ready to settle down,  I completely believed her. Jason should have taken a hard look at his 25 year old picks who barely have lived life and realized any future with Molly or Melissa would end in disaster. Time will tell but for the record I believe he just made the biggest mistake of his life.

Jillian for next bachelorette! she was so unique and truly special so watchable why jason why?

Jasooonnn. WHAT were you thinking?!! Jillian was perfect for you in every way!  How could you not see that when all of America did? She would have been an amazing mother for Ty and wife for you. She was more beautiful and more caring and more mature in every way. I couldn't stop crying when I saw how much it hurt you to let her go. Please take her back! You two have it...it's so real!!!

Jason, you are a complete idiot!  Jillian was one classy lady and you let her go.  She was a complete package.  However, your loss (blunder) is our gain in western Canada.  She's back on the market...

This is for Jillian

Hey Jillian,

I am happily married with a baby.

My husband and I both agree:

you deserve to find someone that can give you what you deserve.

And that is to be with someone like you so you can enjoy all the firsts together: a wedding, new beginning, babies, all of it.

WE know you would be an exemplary Bachelorette and would choose THE BEST BACHELOR for yourself.

By the way you are right. ATTRACTION IS IMPORTANT, BUT PASSION FADES, AND IN THE END IF IT IS TO LAST, IT WILL BE WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND!

well, here's to you,

and your big true heart Jillian,

Hugs from Burnaby

Maria and Jim

and baby Galleni too

I don't normally go for the Canadians on the American shows but I LOVED Jillian.  He's an idiot and I'm sure will regret it.  Deanna just shows up to give him advise as a "friend" who has been there in this situation before.  I think the show is just trying to spin it as some big scandal so we'll be all excited to watch it.  As far as the weird announcement from Chris, my husband thinks (he he) that the final rose ceremony is all "intimate" as in small b/c he chooses Melissa and either her family didn't want an audience there or b/c only her friends come again.  We'll see b/c I'm sure that is the one he is choosing.  He and Molly are too awkward together.

I think the big reveal will be that Molly is preggers . . . the big campout was the day she conceived.  Betcha a million bucks that's what it is!

Jillian was the best girl this season. She's too much for Jason. By choosing Melissa, he's choosing a small life. Jillian can now move on to someone more brave and expansive than Jason. He's a great guy, but not too evolved or open minded.

I was shocked. Why would ANYONE send home a beautiful girl like Jillian? Was Jason on crack or something? What the hell was he thinking? He blew it in the biggest way possible. What a stupid idiot. I'm just speechless.

Jillian is too good for that idiot!  Neither Melissa or Molly are well-rounded, mature, loving, or step-mother/mother material!  If he was only looking for a 2-dimensional pretty face (which is what both Melissa and Molly are!) and if he is too threatened by Jillian's security/maturity/solid family - why didn't he just get an on-line date?

Even my husband ,who can't stand these reality shows, was shocked that Jason let Jillian go last night!  ABC, PLEASE OFFER JILLIAN A BACHELORETTE SHOW~ She is a solid, genuine woman!

What a shocker!!!!Jason made a huge mistake!!!! I wonder what he's thinking as he watches the episodes back? What a blind fool!!!!

Jillian is amazing and I have adored her right from the start. I think she deserves a chance to be the next Bachelorette!!!!

Jason is a complete idiot for sending Jillian home.  I am married with 3 children and can tell you that the thing that is important at the end of the day is that your loved one is your very dearest friend.  Being best friends is what gets you through all the tough times - that understanding of eachother.  Mere passion will never survive a marriage, there needs to be so much more.  Jillian was the only girl mature enough to be a part of Ty's life.  Bring Back Jillian as our next Bachorlette - she is terrific!

I definitely thought he messed up sending Jillian home, but I think his heart is already with Melissa.  He should have sent Molly home and then let things play out naturally with Jill and Melissa.  I think Melissa and him have the natural passion that he was missing with Jillian, although I did love her.

Jason is one of the most amazing guys I have ever seen.  Jillian was a great person, no doubt about that. But you could see that, outside of the hot-tub, the connection wasn't there.  I have thought Melissa is it from their first date. She opened up to him, she is fun and bubbly, and has a passion for kids. When their date changed, she was right there to adapt. That is important as things such as that will come up all the time with Ty. I think Molly is a great person and she did open up quite a bit. I believe she is in love with him. I still think Melissa fits him alot better. I trust Jason's judgement and his heart because he is one of the most amazing guys and father I have ever seen.

uughh! What a dork!! I thought for sure that he'd end up with her, Molly is to cold and Melissa is too young and ditzy ... shame on him.

Jillian you're such a sweetheart!!!

Jillian,

I too was in shock when you didn't receive a rose last night. I can't even imagine how your were feeling leaving New Zealand after having such a romantic time there with Jason. We really thought it would be Molly leaving last night.

You are such a straight up person and I agree with alot of the other people here that he is going to make a bad choice. You have the right mind set, maturity, beauty and confidence to find yourself someone who is worthy of you....and your family is wonderful!! You did Canada proud!!!! We love you!!! I hope you get to be the next Bachlorette.

I think he should have sent home molly instead of jill. but i dont think jill was really there to fall in love like she said i personlly think she liked the adventure and the idae of love. And its jason chose in who he chooses i dont think people should be sitting here and calling him an idiot just because he didnt pick the girl you guys all liked. if he didnt feel something then he didnt feel something. He has alwasy had questions about jill from day one pretty much that why he pulled her aside in seattle. I think jason just thought he was to independent. And they never really did have a romantic chemistry like he did with the other girls.

Has for molly I have never really thought she was right for jason. Like on the home town dates when all the aother girls were running up to him and giving him hugs and kisses. she just kind of stood there. And if that were me and im fighting for tjis guy that havent seen in days i would be running up and wrapping my legs around him.

Jason has always had a romantic chemistry with mel ever since there first date you could see it. And i do think mel is ready to settle down and have a famlliy after all the other bad relationships she had. and just because shes young dosnt meen shes not ready or amture enough to start a famliy i meen im aonly 21 and i already im married and have an 8 almost 9 month old. so you canty really judge someone by there age and say there not ready. And i dont think you should not fall in love with someone just because there parents dont want to meet you uits not her fault.

Im votimg for mel but as long as he dosnt chose deanna then im ok if molly wins.

I, too, lost all respect for Jason last night.  He just doesn't get it....and Jillian does.  She is so right about having a best friend as a mate....THOSE are the relationships that work.  Sure, PASSION is there in the beginning, but anyone who has been successfully married for over 5 years knows....passion fades a little.  that's no reflection on the state of your union, it's just inevitable and natural.  If your face lights up when your mate enters the room, if you LOVE being with him, and you LIKE him...and every now and then you have a hot and steamy encounter (as opposed to a regular one) you are lucky.  you are successful in your relationship.  Jason is immature and naive if he feels PASSION is more important than picking a best friend.  But he's not the first man who's acted like this!  personally, i think this exact issue is why the divorce rate is what it is.

Jason is too immature and self-centered for a woman like Jill.  And, although none of you has said it, he is not particularly good looking.  She can certainly do much better - and she will -- very soon.

Jason wants a giggly adoring school girl and he now has 2 of these from which to choose.  You lose either way, Jason.

Jason, you blew big time!  Jillian was the one!  You'll regret it.  Mellissa please! She' s not as classy and she doesn't seem to have a relationship with her family.  You had to be staring  those cheerleader pics too many times.  Molly is fake and those kisses of hers are so over-rated.  I hate it when she said " I'm a great kisser'.  So stupid.  I've lost repect for you after your decision to let Jillian go.  You may be a sweet guy but you're a moron.

I agree with Sue, I too do not think Jason is that good looking, just average, I certainly wouldn't look twice at him.

I cannot understand Jason when he says Molly's eyes are beautiful, being perfectly honest I think they are kinda of creepy.  Melissa I think is too young and is way into herself, whoever Jason chooses, it won't last, oh well Jason, you will reap what you sow.

Jason, I wish you realize one day you made a big mistake in letting Jillian go.  As for Jillian, please make her the next Bachelorette!  She really deserves it.

Well I agree with every comment about Jason and him making a mistake. Yes, it is true passion is what it is but at the end of the day when your 90 years old mmmmmmm passion or your best friend?  Best friend definitley. Jillian is a strong beautiful woman who actually stayed true to herself the entire show. I think in the long run he will regret what he let go.  When I heard his reasonings about why it was her leaving I must tell you that any smart woman would chalk that up as excuses to hide the fact that Jillian just may have been to much of a strong woman for him perhaps he prefers the whiny woman or pretentious which is exactly what he has left in both these woman still standing. As for who is the best fit well to be honest I don't think any either one of them are. Molly is a bit reserved and seems to come of a little high maintenance and Melissa well to young but I guess if he was in love with Deanna then clearly he sees somewhat of a resemblence in Melissa.  After the last episode I actually don't care to watch who he chooses as he's already let go of the one who should have been his lobster. Oh well I guess it's the chance you take when you do a show like that. Jillian could be the next bachelorette but I think she's a pretty amazing woman and with a little time she'll find her lobster her own way!!  Woman out there stay strong and beautiful!  

Jason is very floolish.... Jillian was the one..... WOW what a dummy.

Melissa best friends do not know her parents... and why not make her hometown date with her brother... Family is important and Jason is not thinking.

Molly is cute, but after his observation that their was a lack of affection in Molly's family says A LOT..... Be serious, its not just about Jason but Ty too. This little boys needs a nuturing family enviroment.

Jilllian deseres the best.. and I think Jason could have been it.  He did not look to the next level or he would have seem that Jillian brings everthing to a solid relationship for both he and Ty.

I didn't really like Jason when he was on "The Bachelorette". I thought he was a nerd. He probably never had so many women fawning over him in his life!

Melissa definitely was too good for him!!

For the past couple of weeks, I would watch the Bachelor and really saw a kind of chemistry between Jason and Jillian that was almost magical. How could someone be dumb enough to throw a gift away like that when it's so rare to find? He'll lose out - and of course so will Ty - for his crazy decision last night. Very surprising twist and quite sad.

I agree with "girlcrush Feb 16 at 10:02pm".  I think the thing that Chris Harrison is talking about is that Jason realizes he blew it and then gets Jillian back and she is the one he proposes to.  Those promos leading us to believe it's Melissa, ABC isn't dumb and we are all thinking it's going to be Melissa.  The hot tub scene, man, that was almost porn!  I think Jason realizes after he let Jillian go, that they can be best friends and MORE!!! and he calls her back, then saying so long to Melissa and Molly.  Remember ABC is editing etc to get us to think one way and then the shocker.  Remember Brad Womack and Deanna!  My jaw is still dropped when Brad dumped both of those gals, because ABC edited the whole show so well no one ever saw that coming!  Let's be smart about this and do our best to outsmart ABC.  I also think it won't be Deanna.  All 3 of these gals are wonderful good people.  I don't think Molly's fake at all.  Melissa is so sweet!  Jillian is the one for Jason.  Definitely.  She'll be back, shocking all of America, crying buckets!  Chris Harrison said on one blog that the last show is the most emotional rose ceremony ending he's ever seen and to have our kleenex ready!!!  Another splash and promo/editing stuff, but it makes sense to me.  Plus really, how could Jason say so long forever to Jillian's super family and that loving grandma???  Impossible!

Jason, Jason, Jason!  What the heck were you thinking?  Melissa?  Molly?  In six months these GIRLS will drive you batty.  They are both needy and are looking for a man to complete them. They may be sweet but they have no sense of self and willl begin to get on your nerves once they become utterly and completely dependant on you for their happiness. Jillian, now that is a WOMAN, someone who is strong and loving and knows what life if all about.  You would have had a strong and solid marriage with her (and a passionate one as well).  At this point, you desearve what you get, you may be a nice guy but you really should have thought this one through with your head and not your you know what. It's time to grow up. We know you will pick Melissa.  Best of lluck choosing the girl that reminds you of Deanna and your ex. You are going to need it.

I am so disappointed in Jason.  He seemed to really be grounded and know what he was looking for in a wife and mother for Ty and then he sends home Jillian.  Jillian was the only one of the 3 women who seems sincere from her heart and ready to face a lifetime of love and devotion to Jason and Ty.  The other 2 girls and I do see them as girls do not seem to have the maturity it takes to make a relationship work in this difficult and not always star studded world.

I was loving the show each week and now I don't know if I can watch the rest.  I truly do not see Jason, or at least the Jason I thought I was getting to know, with Molly or Mel.

Jason has to pick who he has feelinsg for but my only point is that he seems to think the only important thing is  girls 8 years younger than him fawning over him.  Grow up Jason. Quit thinking only with your......!

I know in time, he will regret letting Jillian go. I believe Deanna  want him back now, she regrets not choosing him. It is the same scenario in reverse.

About Jullian, she is great, I really can see them together, she probably had to be more open about her feeling to Jason(he was waiting for that). After the rose, when she finally said she is in love with him, he was in tears(may be he

realized - it's mistake to let her go :(  

Melissa is to simple and nothing special. All her fantasy - to wear  short shorts or dress to show her legs all the time. But when the crazy chemistry will be over, what  else she can offer him? I'm not sure... How long their relationship

will last?

Jason. Jason...

As much as I like Jullian, I don't want her to be next Bachelorette. I can't even explain why. This show makes bachelor/bachelorette more silly than they are in real life. I don't want this experience for classy and gorgeous Jullian

I was so sad to see Jillian go! She truly was the best one, maybe not for Jason, because I think she deserves even better than him!

I watched the Batchelor last night 'The women tell all' and of course Jason was there, meeting Jillian for the first time since he had sent her home.  Gosh Jillian is really a true beauty, I can quite honestly say, what did she see in Jason, because to me he is quite unattractive, the way he smiles, yuck!

What makes Jason even more ugly to me is the fact that he took advantage of Jillian in the fantasy suite.  He knew he was going to send her home, but thought he could get a piece of the action, he knew how vulnerable she felt and when she did wear her heart on her sleeve, he couldn't of cared less.  All he wants is a young girl to wear on his sleeve, but remember Jason, everyone gets old and bodies start to head south, why don't you grow up!

The women tell all, Jason was not himself, he was not honest.

I believe that Jason in Bachelorette and Jason on Bachelor are two different

man. I liked first one more...

I don't see Jason getting married Melissa or Molly in  the nearest future. One thing is fantasy suits and New Zeeland and other is real life with a single dad…

The WTA show was very weird at this time. No questions from the women to Jason, no questions from the audience, no prediction from the women who will be the final one as in past seasons. Only 5 minutes with the bachelor and NO hard questions to him at all. And Jason was not himself.

Something defiantly  happened lately...

hello I just shocked that why did jason let jillian go home. I love to watch her on show tv. she is very beautiful, classy. She seems like humble person, sweet. hope she find correct man for your time. I seems jason and jillian looks good couple. Hope jillian will be next bachlorette. smile

After the WTA it's clear the rumours about Jason bringing back Jill to propose aren't true. However, I am still comforted by knowing that whoever he ends up with, Melissa or Molly, will not be a lasting relationship. They are too immature, and superficial.

Jillian has real depth. Hopefully Jason will go back to her when all this craziness is over... either way, I know she will find true happiness.

I  just don't understand how people saying Stephaney is the best for Jason!

You don't see they are absolutely different people? Doesn't meter how nice

she is ,nothing common between them. Jason just paid respect to her and kept

her  for a while.  She needs different men and of course older than Jason -

she is much more mature than Mesnick.

Read last updated Steven's  report.

                                                                                                                          It's look like Melissa is heartbroken. Jason and Molly are not engaged, but she’s moving to Seattle and starting normal life with Jason to check their real relationship and so on.                                                                                    BTW I don't want to believe that producers ask Jason to propose to Melissa first, even he was going to end up with Molly. I believe he proposed to Melissa(because it was HIS DECISION!) & he was torn at that time. That is why after he changed his mind or something else.

I believe there is a time for changes on the Bachelor/Bachelorette show. To be engaged after 2 month? It’s not real. That is why don’t work out. Let call this “promise ring” and may be instead of question “Would you marry me?” should end up with “Will you be my girlfriend?” or something like that. And later let viewers know how it’s going.

I don't think Molly or any woman should trust Jason he looks too much like George Bush!

Poor Jillian..she deserves more than that...every woman shouldn't deserve that in front of the camera.... of course such humilitation would be suited to those who deserve it but its not Jilllian

the idea of making her bachelorette is good ..

i suspect that the women on the Bachelor were blinded by their competitiveness to the point that they don't realize what a tool they are competing for