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Bachelor Shocker: Jason Mesnick Proposed to Melissa, Picked Molly!

Well Reality Steve was right Bachelor fans, incase you missed the finale tonight, Jason Mesnick actually proposed to Melissa at the final rose ceremony and then dumped her on national television and then asked for Molly back in the end.

Melissa RycroftThe After the Rose is currently playing as I write this, but I have to say that I have no respect for Jason Mesnick anymore at all. Not only did Jason seem like the most genuine bachelor ever but he seemed like he was actually falling in love with Melissa.

Now, this is just my opinion, but I have lost all respect for Jason. Not only did he not have to breakup with Melissa on national television but he also didnt have to propose on the final day. He could have asked for more time or he could have picked her and not proposed.

I was ticked when Brad Womack picked neither DeAnna or Jennie on his season but I have more respect for him than I do for Jason.

There's absolutely no excuses for Jason's behavior. Honestly, how can someone's opinion change so much in six weeks.

If he cared about her at all (especially after she said how many times she's been hurt), he would not have decided to humiliate her on national television.

What did you guys think of the finale?

We started a petition to make Melissa the next Bachelorette earlier in the week - you can add your name to the list now!

Update: Looks like Jillian is going to be the next Bachelorette!

Here's the only post-taping video we could find of Jason after knowing full-well he broke Melissa's heart. Take a look at the jerk explaining to everyone how happy he is:

For those of you who haven't read it, check out Chris Harrison's blog on last night's finale!

             
Published Monday, March 02, 2009 10:05 PM by Bella
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Ellie said:

He's a freakin' ***. Total cad. And for what? For Molly? Good luck w/that.

March 2, 2009 10:22 PM
 

Di said:

Bachelor is totally fixed!!!  And Jason is a *** for going along with the plan!!

March 2, 2009 10:23 PM
 

Sarah said:

Completely agree!!! What a pig!I was so happy she called him a ***.  Thats what he truly is being.  And what is this showing Ty? I hope Molly says no way!

March 2, 2009 10:24 PM
 

Lisa said:

I definitely have to agree with you! Why the hell couldn't he have broken up with her in private and then together they could have revealed it to all of America? Instead he breaks up with her on National TV and not 10 minutes later he'll pick her runner up again on national TV? ***! Personally I didn't love either girl--I was a Jillian fan. But I cannot believe Jason did this--I too have lost ALL respect for him.

March 2, 2009 10:24 PM
 

Jaclyn said:

This was just absolutely ridiculous. I have been praying that Steve was wrong and here he is... absolutely spot on! Argh!!!

March 2, 2009 10:24 PM
 

DS said:

Definitely! I have lost ALL my respect for him. U just don't do that to people. Today you want someone and claim you are in love with them and the next day you want somebody else??? PPPPPLLLLLLLLEEEEEAAAAASSSSSEEEEE!  This guy will never be happy....damn...u just don't that to people!!!

March 2, 2009 10:30 PM
 

laurie said:

I was shocked that everyone thought Jason was so nice and special.  He seemed like a nerd last year and again this year.  His behavior on this final episode is so selfish and immature and I hope that in the end he ends up hurt again!!

I am done with the Bachelor!! A waste of hours of my life and I hope Jason ends up alone in the end - he is not ready for a partner.

March 2, 2009 10:32 PM
 

bernidette said:

i agree i hate him, he deserves everything he gets and i hope its bad!

March 2, 2009 10:32 PM
 

stee said:

I am so hot right now watching this!  She didn't deserve that... but atleast she didn't get stuck with such a loser.  He showed his true colors tonight!

March 2, 2009 10:33 PM
 

random said:

my theory is that jason is actually a homosexual, and is in love with chris, the host.

March 2, 2009 10:34 PM
 

bernidette said:

Jason is a big dud too! He sucks for breaking Melissa's heart.Have fun Molly.

March 2, 2009 10:34 PM
 

Jason said:

I had watched the original Bachelor and over the years haven't seen any subsequent seasons. This season I ended up catching the first episode and followed through to tonight. I'll personally admit animosity based off the fact that Melissa was who I liked from the very beginning (how often does your *first* get through to the end on any reality show).

Didn't (and is still airing) watch the hour after when I saw the first few minutes. Just checked status on here. I'll never watch the show again no matter what the situation is.

It isn't because he may have made a mistake in his feelings, but because both he & the producers of the show thought it *ratings worthy* to publicly exploit something that is just wrong. Any person can argue the entire show is public. Fine. The point of the show is for the person to find someone. It isn't supposed to be making a mockery out of a person and airing it.

I'm disgusted and hope the show falls on a nail. Jason Mesnick should have never agreed to the "after the rose" although he may have been contractually bound. The producers should have not crossed that line. You can argue anything you want, but kiss off. You propose to someone and 6 weeks later bring them on National TV to breakup. Sounds more like Jerry Springer.

March 2, 2009 10:35 PM
 

KT said:

I agree!!!  He SUCKS!!!

March 2, 2009 10:35 PM
 

Kerri said:

Crap! He should have never proposed if he was struggling with his feelings even a little bit. Melissa said everything she should have said, I thought she handled it very well.

March 2, 2009 10:36 PM
 

Guru said:

Jason has to follow his heart. This entire thing is so over-engineered that there's no judging Jason for what he did. Come on, give the guy a break.

March 2, 2009 10:37 PM
 

Allison said:

I completely agree! These were my thoughts exactly.

Jason will go down in the d-bag hall of fame. He seemed so nice.....he wasn't. There was no need to humiliate Melissa in this way. If he cared for her, he wouldn't have!

March 2, 2009 10:45 PM
 

Hollywood Hookup said:

Fans of ABC’s The Bachelor have been waiting all season for the big finale shocker that is said to be

March 2, 2009 10:46 PM
 

Hollywood Hookup said:

We've been speculating since the premiere of The Bachelor 13 that Jason Mesnick, chooses Dallas Cowboys

March 2, 2009 10:50 PM
 

Miss Lo said:

Jason is a complete ***!! Molly should beware.  He is divorced, was in love with Deanna and proposed, was in love with Melissa and proposed.  She should know that the fourth time is probably not the charm.  He throws that l word around ALOT.  Selfish loser...he didn't have to do this on tv.

March 2, 2009 10:50 PM
 

Jen said:

i have absolutely no respect for Jason after tonight Finale. I hope Molly is not going to him a shot.  He will hurt her the same way later on.

March 2, 2009 10:56 PM
 

Maureen said:

I SOOOOO AGGGGREEEEE - what an A**. It so has to be so fixed. This coudln't ahve really ahppened. He is such a ***. Any girl would not be so open to try and work it out after he just did that to another girl. Maybe they deserve each other - what a creep he is.  It amkes me sick just watching how Molly is acting right now. Give ma a break and Jason needs to stop saying such crap !!

March 2, 2009 10:57 PM
 

Dis Gusted said:

i am mad at myself for even watching such garbage.

March 2, 2009 11:09 PM
 

Dis Gusted said:

i am mad at myself for even watching such garbage.

March 2, 2009 11:09 PM
 

Princess said:

I don't believe that Jason and Molly were not corresponding before their appearance on ATFR. I have no respect for either of them.

March 2, 2009 11:11 PM
 

Mike said:

It looks like Jason doesn't know what he wants, and feels as if he can back out of anything anytime he wants when there is a single spark of doubt.  It's a wonder that he doesn't put his son up for adoption, or dump him back over on his ex-wife.

As for Melissa, she was wrong in saying that Jason needs to fight for her.  She has to fight for him as well.  She probably fought for him too, but she should have admitted that on national TV.  It's not just all the guys anymore.  If women want to be reckognized, they need to fight too.  It's not the 1950's anymore.

March 2, 2009 11:14 PM
 

Sarah said:

I am sooooo pissed! I thought he was genuine until I saw the final rose episode. He lost the best thing and it's sad that he is that much of a jerk to do all of that on national television. He is really good at making himself look like an a**. I'm actually happy for Melissa because she deserves better than him. He is a LIAR!!! I hope Melissa finds all the happiness in the world. What I thought was the best season ever, just turned into the worst. I'm done watching the bachelor. This episode made me feel like there is no true love out there.

March 2, 2009 11:15 PM
 

Mike Hunt said:

Jason is a liar, sneek and Drama Queen. He isn't man enough for a woman...

March 2, 2009 11:16 PM
 

Larria said:

I cannot believe he did that...I never could really decide what I thought about Jason but I definitely did not think he was that rude and mean spirited....and Melissa seems so sweet...and if things were really that "different" than why didn't he talk to her about it seriously before going on t.v. to dump her....I also am surprised that Molly didn't say...if you love me so much than why didn't you pick me the first time...it's all sort of crazy...does anyone know what was supposed "different" in Jason's idea witht their relationship?  I hope Melissa is the bachelorette too....I am sure she will find someone much nicer than Jason....it's just scare that someone could seem honest and trustworthy and end up the opposite

March 2, 2009 11:17 PM
 

Ben Dover said:

Jason is sooo confused. Why? Because he is a Certified Loser. Crying like the drama  queen he is. His ears are huge now watch his amazing nose grow as he lies his way into Molly's pants!

March 2, 2009 11:20 PM
 

Sarah Credo said:

Everyone

Has

To

Calm

Down.

If this is reality, then Jason did the right thing. It may not have been pretty, but hey, this is a show about Jason, not Melissa. Sorry to be brutally honest, but that's how life goes. People make mistakes. A bunch of you are hypocrites for calling him an ass. Nobody's perfect. Could he have done things differently? Yeh, definitely. You people should try being in love with two people at once and make a choice with a clear head. Melissa didn't deserve that kind of humiliation, but personally, I think he is a good guy and I hope things work out between him and Molly. She has a good heart for taking him back, but she is probably foolish to take him back, but if they really love each other, then where's the wrong in that? Like I said, if this is reality, then she should take him back. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but I think I touched on a few things that should be said here.

Good luck to Melissa, and I genuinly hope it's not her, but Gillian that'll be the next Bachelorette.

March 2, 2009 11:22 PM
 

pat said:

I hate this show now. no respect for Jason or Molly.

March 2, 2009 11:27 PM
 

Taylor said:

I have watched this season more than any other and wanted him to propose to Melissa, and then he finally did. I was so happy and then in the final rose ceremony he just dumped her. What a doosh . Molly is an idiot for getting back with him. I really want to see what all the other bacherlettes have to say about this. I love Melissa and think that she should absolutely have her own show.

March 2, 2009 11:29 PM
 

lana said:

What the hell is his problem!! To put a fricken ring on her finger then dump her 6 weeks later. Yah he really loved her. He didn't have to propose.. he could have waited. Then to break up with her on tv and like 10 minutes later he is making out with molly. Have a little respect. For melissa and himself. I have no respect for him at all anymore.

March 2, 2009 11:30 PM
 

Hann said:

omw... hes is a complete a** theren is no reason to do that to melissa what did she do to him that was so bad. well molly and jason most definitly had to be seeing each other before all of this happened. how can someone who was so heartbroken just all of the sudden be kissing him and saying ok lets do this blah blah blah... whatever this show is fixed and crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!! abc was wrongfor letting this happen im through

March 2, 2009 11:34 PM
 

Jennie said:

That was totally uncalled for. He could have called it off before. Why wait until on national tv? I don't believe for a minute that he hasn't been talking to Molly. What a bunch of crap!

March 2, 2009 11:35 PM
 

Leigh said:

Molly always seemed so natural, so genuine.  People make mistakes.  I commend Molly for handling herself with such grace and maturity.  If she truly loves Jason, she will forgive him.  Molly and Jason, good luck!  Melissa, you are a beautiful girl - God will steer you in the right direction...

March 2, 2009 11:38 PM
 

I Call BS said:

This show is so full of BS! I'll never watch this crap again. Melissa is much better off without that ***!

March 2, 2009 11:39 PM
 

Andrew said:

1) Jason is an emotional infant and doesn't give a rats butt about anyone but himself.

2) Why would you do that to Melissa on national TV?  Why wouldn't you dump her ahead of time or talk to her about it...instead you hold off crushing her until you're on TV? Answer: Because in the end you reveal yourself to be the biggest Jerk in TV history!.

3) I can see why Jason is alone and why his previous wife left him.  Good for her!

4) I feel sorry for Ty, his dad is a loser.

5) Molly is an idiot if she stays with him, after what he did to Melissa.

March 2, 2009 11:42 PM
 

Leah said:

BOOO!!! Very disappointing. I thought he was a decent guy, and I'm disappointed. Honestly, I don't care that he decided he wanted Molly over  Melissa. I think that's understandable, goodness knows most people don't pick a spouse over a 6 wk time frame. BUT, and this is a big BUT, to dump Melissa on national TV shows that he cares more about the money and fame then he does for her feelings.  So, either he never cared for her in the first place, or he's just an *ss.  Take your pick.

March 2, 2009 11:45 PM
 

patty said:

I am so disappointed in JASON.  I was happy for Melissa. I cant believe JASON  proposes and then decides not to get married!!

I dont feel Molly will make a good step-mom. she is all about her career right now; not that its bad but shifting gears and all of a sudden step-mom as her new title, will certainly be a shift of gears for her. She does not seem mother-material. Melissa is so right; he didnt fight for it to work. he gave up too easy.

just by him crying tells me he is a weak man and now more so because he gave up so easy on their relationship.  He thinks he's at a drive-thru window ordering food and can just move on to the next gal!  what a creep!    

March 2, 2009 11:49 PM
 

memem said:

i will never watch this show again.

jason is classless, thoughtless, and hearltess

melissa is a beautiful honest kind woman she deserves better

poor molly she is now being set up for the worst

jason go home to deanna - you 2 deserve each other

March 2, 2009 11:54 PM
 

Sue said:

The show had to be fixed... and I bought right into it!   I even cried when he picked Melissa.. and as tears were running down my cheeks and the After the Final Rose show started , I realized what was haappening..and  I thought what the ****?  They fooled me! I fell for it!

I think DeAnna's little impromptu pit stop in NZ, was completely staged.. setting Jason ( and US) up to  choose Melissa, and not the "wild card", Molly.   Molly's reactions were obviously pre-planned, and Jason probably walked off with millions, but at the expense of one person.. and that's Melissa. I feel sorry for her.. but she is one lucky girl not to be involved with such a screwed up guy.  Let's see how long it takes him to break up with Molly now.

And by the way... does anyone else think he needed a good smack to snap him out of the tears?

March 2, 2009 11:54 PM
 

memem said:

jason

how badly did u really feel?

u couldn't wait to get your hands on molly

one minute you're breaking the woman of your dreams heart

the next your'e making out with the one you ditched- for no good reason

get real!!!

you are a horrible role model for your son

you can't just pick and choose as you please

where are your manners? you had us all fooled for awhile-

shame on you, jason

shame on you

March 2, 2009 11:57 PM
 

Meg said:

Melissa always came off as rather immature.  The chemistry between Melissa and Jason disappeared after the cameras stopped rolling. And her parents and brother, where were they and what kind of people are they?  They have not been supportive of Melissa at all and Melissa's friends of ten years have never met her parents or brother.  What's up with that???????  I agree with Jason, end it now and not months later when so much would have been invested in a relationship that includes a small child.  Jason might look like a *** now, but it was for the best for Melissa and her family and for Jason and Ty.

March 3, 2009 12:11 AM
 

suz said:

Eewwww...sloppy seconds.  Molly would have run if she had any class at all.  They definitely deserve each other.  Melissa will be better off after she has time to reflect.  She is a young attractive woman and at least she didn't get stuck with Jason any longer than she did.  Move on girl...there are nice guys out there who won't humiliate you!

March 3, 2009 12:17 AM
 

JS said:

He broke it off with melissa after he claimed to be in love with her......... Molly, how can you be so sure he won't do the same thing to you.  I'm not sure what he is looking for, but life is more than just all sex appeal and glamour.  He gave up a great person that would have given him the world.  I'd say Good luck with Molly, but even she deserves more.    Don't trust him.  he has proven he doesn't know what he wants.   He said so many times during the show that   he could spend the rest of his life with either girl.........Lie!  He wouldn't have broken Melissa's heart if that were true, because he would still be with her.

March 3, 2009 1:09 AM
 

Michelle said:

This just goes to show you that love made-for-television just doesn't happen in 10 episodes!  Clearly Melissa was the best pick but I'm shocked Molly decided to give him another chance.  Perhaps this guy has issues?  Melissa took the high road and she's better off without his nonsense.  The one I truly feel sorry for is little Ty!

March 3, 2009 1:17 AM
 

Leigh said:

Booooooooooo Jason.  What a booger.  Figure yourself on your own time, buddy.  You need a time out, not another relationship.

I wonder what else I could have done with my life over the last 3 hours...

March 3, 2009 1:39 AM
 

Liz said:

I hate Molly and Jason.  Neither have any class.  I hope Melissa goes on to have a wonderful life.

March 3, 2009 1:54 AM
 

Xandra said:

Melissa NEEDS to be the next bachelorette. She is fantastic, endearing, and America LOVES her! For someone who has always been the dumpee to have stayed so true to who she is and to have trusted love again just to be hurt more deeply than before, is amazing. She held herself with grace and dignity during the Final Rose and made some brilliant points. Jason went from being the perfect Bachelor to being the biggest jerk. Jason made his decision, and now ABC it is time to make yours - Melissa for Bachelorette!

March 3, 2009 1:56 AM
 

Carrington said:

The very fact that this show is set up to not work in the first place kind of dictates how the ending went.  People believe that he can fall in love within 6 weeks but not fall out of love withing 6 weeks?  Pulease!  This show's premise is hardly set up for happy endings.  If in fact he does find love with Molly - isn't that a good thing for all of them??  Why force it with Melissa...that's even more cruel.  I don't have issues with the way Jason let Melissa down, I have issues with the producers of the show, I think it is completely cruel the way it was orchestrated.  As if Jason has a say in how they want to air the show.  Form.u.la.  Don't we all know this by now?

March 3, 2009 2:08 AM
 

rellaprincess said:

I am so pissed right now. I only watched the first bachelor and this one and now will never watch another one. Molly is desperate and pathetic. No self respecting woman would ever be willingly be someone's after thought or their oops I shoulda! She makes women look bad. I mean what kind of woman thinks it's ok what he just did and how many women is he going to tell that he " has never felt this way before ever and has never been so in love before." She didn't give two dimes about how melissa was feeling or what she just went through. Melissa did not deserve that, yet handled it better than I would have. He would have been slapped. This show is non existant as far as I am concerned and will not promote such discusting behavior for ratings.

March 3, 2009 2:42 AM
 

mia said:

HE IS A LOSERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

HE DESERVES TO STAY ALONE.... POOR kID.....

March 3, 2009 3:10 AM
 

ROFL said:

OWNED; Melissa = GTFO ***

Jason got his pootang and bailed, what a class act har har =D

March 3, 2009 4:40 AM
 

Bubba said:

Jason is an AMAZING Sissy, with an AMAZING gayness. with an AMAZINGLY ugly sister, with  AMAZINGLY HUGE Ears, with  an AMAZINGLY gay punk son Ty, who will get ties up with a guy cause he is gay too, with an AMAZINGLY gay tendency to fake cry, with an AMAZINGLY big bobblehead, who walks and runs like an AMAZINGLY ***, gay drama queen.

Jason-we hear hear that you are  an AMAZINGLY bad lover,  with an AMAZINGLY small tool, who comes from an AMAZINGLY ugly big earred family.

You better tie Ty down with a rope, because if a strong wind comes those  AMAZINGLY Big Ears of his will make him airborne.

Molly has an AMAZINGLY huge box like set of teeth. She is cheesy and dim witted just like the *** that you are. Go ahead and cry you punk -when real men see you, they are going to slap you like the Queen you are! Amazing...isn't it?

March 3, 2009 6:33 AM
 

Mojofix said:

The Batch a' Loser, Jason Less-Dick is a self-loathing Wasp wannabe. Molly was all about winning. Mellisa is way to hot for this three time loser.  Make his ex-wife get a show, then I may watch again. Is a divorced man technically a 'bachelor' anyway?

March 3, 2009 6:53 AM
 

sara said:

How did he fall out of love in 6 weeks? How did he fall in love with both girls in 8 weeks.. the bachelor isnt reality...Jason didnt start cheating on Melissa at all... he was actually doing the right thing, as harsh as that seems...look at the track record of most of the other bachelors..atleast he didnt lead her on...I think he had the best intentions asking Melissa to marry him, but when ur off  the camera and living 1000 miles away from eachother, u start to see the true test of a relationship...and he didnt see it going anywhere..and they really arent alloud to see eachother until that after the final rose....the man has been thru enough not to get married unless his whole heart was in it...I feel for Melissa I really do, but she'll find someone perfect for her...Believe me, being away on a magical island will make you fall in love with the just about anyone...an experience like that isn't true life...u cant blame him for wanting to see where it goes with molly or for Molly to want to try dating him...also, he had to face both girls on camera as part of his contract...im sure he would have done it off camera if he could have...Good luck Melissa...Best wishes to Jason & Molly..Lifes to short to be with the wrong person, and Ty doesnt need anymore brokenhomes..I think Jason was putting Ty first and he even said that he took the advice that he would tell Ty if he were in his spot :)

March 3, 2009 7:55 AM
 

Rachel said:

Jason you are a big time jerk! If I was Melissa I would either kept the ring and sold it or thrown it to your face. You have alot of nerve saying you loved her than breaking up with her on TV. You did to Melissa what DeAnna did to you. You ask DeAnna whyshe let you get down on one knee and you did the same to sweet Melissa. You gave her the ring and put it on her finger. You are a jerk and I hope Molly breaks up with you later on. I had really liked you when deAnna broke your heart and now you do this to Melissa.

I hope you and Molly break up remember...what goes around comes around.

Melissa is way prettier than Molly and a better person....mistake???? That is right with Molly is a big mistake!

You jerk!

March 3, 2009 8:11 AM
 

Kae said:

I agree with Sarah Credo....we have just one life to live.  And it's horrible if it's lived with regret.  With that being said, Jason could have had saved Melissa some dignity by breaking up with her in private rather than on national TV.  Maybe, it was in the contract that everything had to be done in front of the camera.

March 3, 2009 8:12 AM
 

Taylor L said:

On Jimmy Kimmel live last night...Jason said he never would have broke up with Melissa on national television if he was not under contract to do so. Everything in their relationship had to be in front of the camera.

You have to give him kudos though for not leading Melissa on. If that were me and he was only thinking of someone else...I would want him to be forthcoming with me about it. I agree he should have waited to propose until he was absolutely sure...but in the end he needed to make things right.

March 3, 2009 8:19 AM
 

Sarah Credo said:

Thanks Kae.

I was just watching the entire after the rose again and when you see it the second time around, their reactions seemed a little rehearse. Melissa wasn't hugging him right initally which indicates he'd already spoken with her regarding the issue. So WHY people are calling him names for saying the inevitable on television (which he would have had to do anyway) is beyond me. Y'all should know better by now that while things are questionably real, the producers were simply trying to get better ratings. Don't believe the utter horsecrap Jason was saying about "not speaking to Molly since--" but dont judge the guy, Melissa was trying to play the poor heart broken girl when she'd already done all the crying beforehand

Not saying this cause I have a personal distaste of Melissa, but why should she be the Bachelorette? She is so immature. There's a reason why she and Jason didn't work out. If the chemistry wasn't the same, it's cause she was the one being different in front of the camera. Jason asking for another shot with Molly says a lot. It says he was there for the right reasons and that he made a mistake the first time.

Total hypocracy.

March 3, 2009 8:48 AM
 

Carla said:

I have thought bout this all night...clearly a reality junkie...but Jason really messed up...its horrible after melissa has been hurt so much, how could he do that??...I hope he doesn't end up with Molly..Molly is so phony to me..I think this is set up I swear....I just feel for Melissa...MAKE HER BACHELORETTE PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE

March 3, 2009 9:04 AM
 

Taylor L said:

I agree with Credo for the mere fact that on Jimmy Kimmel...Jason had also said that they were pretty much done with before they got there and that Melissa knew that is what was going down. It just had to be in front of the camera!

The show started airing not long after he broke it off with Melissa in real time. And they beefed up the promo and sneak peaks to make the whole thing very dramatic. Everyone knew that the finale was going to be dramatic...and they wanted us to think it was because of Deanna. I knew better...I just couldn't put my finger on it until I watched the entire show last night. Once I did...I predicted exactly what happened on "After the Final Rose".

As much as the show may seemed rehearsed etc..Jason cannot help his feelings and what would be the point of him staying with Melissa if his heart was somewhere else. After all, Molly called it on the finale when she said that he was making a huge mistake that she thought he would regret. He did and changed his mind...we as humans are entitled to do so.

March 3, 2009 9:16 AM
 

MT said:

This was taped before he broke up with Melissa. He was on Jimmy Kimmel last night and gave the whole timeline of when he and Melissa broke up. He was actually with her for a while after the show ended.

That being said.. he is definitly a tool.

March 3, 2009 9:44 AM
 

Betsy said:

That was lower than dirt....and so is Jason. You just don't do that to anyone (man or woman). It was just classless and cruel. Jason, I hope you're happy cause you got a fellow loser (Molly) to go out with you when you were engaged to a real classy gem of a lady (Melissa).  Shame on you for breaking her heart like that. As for your relationship  with Molly....I have only this to say about it -> Curse of  The Bachelor! Does it ring any bells you empty-headed, scumbag of an a-hole.

Poor Ty and Melissa

Oh and Melissa...kudos to you for handling yourself with class and with such strength and dignity....and for also nailing Jason's worthless butt to the floor. You desrve a prince not a lowlife pauper like him.

March 3, 2009 9:56 AM
 

Lee said:

I CAN SEE WHY JASON'S WIFE TOOK A HIKE.  THIS GUY IS DISTURBED.

HOW DID HE EVER GET CUSTODY OF HIS SON???

March 3, 2009 10:40 AM
 

Sunshine said:

What the heck??  How do you propose to someone and then dump her in six weeks because there is someone else???  Grass isn't always greener on other side!!  Melissa should be the next bachelorette for sure@@!!!!!

March 3, 2009 10:45 AM
 

LEE said:

IT IS SO DISTURBING THAT PEOPLE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS USE AND HUMILIATE PEOPLE IN THIS WAY.

"THE BACHELOR" SHOULD BE CANCELLED.  THE PEOPLE WHO ARE INVOLVED

WITH THIS PROGRAM ARE VICTIMIZING MEN AND WOMEN WHO HONESTLY

WOULD LIKE TO FIND THEIR SOUL MATE.

JASON IS IMMATURE AND IRRESPONSIBLE.  HIS FORMER WIFE WAS SMART

TO DUMP HIM.

March 3, 2009 10:46 AM
 

Nicole said:

I agree! I don't think I will watch this show again! I can't believe he did that on national television. I fell so bad for Melissa, but I know she wil end up with someone way better than Jason! In my eyes he is a totall J***!

March 3, 2009 10:47 AM
 

LNS said:

Jason is such a **** for doin that to melissa!! i hope he ends up alone again!! melissa was pretty and caring a definately deserves more than Jason! im glad he broke up with her so she doesnt have to put up with him!! i hope Molly and him dont work out because im not a fan of either one of them!!!!!!!!!

March 3, 2009 10:50 AM
 

Jamie said:

All's fair in love and war, drama queens.

March 3, 2009 11:10 AM
 

Tracy said:

jason is a jerk,i know why his wife left him now

I'm done with the show........It's a waste of time

March 3, 2009 12:44 PM
 

Sama said:

He is happy and thats whats most important!!

March 3, 2009 1:26 PM
 

Brian said:

I cannot believe how rotten this show is and what a sorry wimpy dude Jason MESNICK is.  How small is he?  He's looks like he's like he's about 5 '6 150 lbs.  This guy is such a sappy loser, I can't believe it.  I guess after looking at his fat bald father and droopy sappy looking mother I can see why he's such a gutless loser.  His family is so Jewish looking it's painful, no wonder why he has no backbone or morals.  Melissa is so lucky she has no idea how lucky she is not being with that putz.  Sorry but the truth is the truth.

March 3, 2009 1:29 PM
 

Lisa said:

I always hated what this show represented a bunch of women who have such little self worth and self value that they "compete" for a man's love. I grew up as a woman knowing a man should love me not pick me out like a pair of pants that fit. This year though was different...I thought...I liked Jason so I watched...then I heard what the producers did to set this up and how they squashed poor Melissa and alternately flew both girls to Jason on the weekends...pigs! thats all I can say and I will NEVER watch this again nor will I allow my daughters to watch this EVER again.

March 3, 2009 1:41 PM
 

Diane said:

I was saddened to see that the network AND father had so little sense to drag an innocent 3 year old into their BS.  This little boy must be so confused, and what kind of message are they sending him.  "It's ok to bounce around from woman to woman and not bother working things out?" Seriously, the one that loses in the end is the boy.

March 3, 2009 2:21 PM
 

Andy said:

ANYONE who is upset over this show and now HATES Jason is mentally disturbed and should never watch reality tv again, or pack their sh!t and move to MARS. Why are any of you so emotionally ripped to pieces over any of this? Now I see why there are so many single women in this world - you're all NUTS and I am a woman saying this. I WILL NEVER FEEL SORRY FOR ANY OF THESE PEOPLE.  They know exactly what they are getting into before they sign on the dotted line and if they do not....well it's their fault for NOT reading before signing!!...hmpf!!!

March 3, 2009 2:21 PM
 

Canuck said:

I am genuinely of the opinion that bachelor Jason is more homosexual rather than heterosexual.  In addition, he appears to be a full-blown narcissist.  He justifies his abysmal treatment of others by saying he's "following his heart".  Aww...is that what they call lack of impulse control, these days?

All potential female, AND male sexual partners  would be wise to avoid him, in my view, because he comes across as a complete phony, and is what used to be called a cad and a bounder.  Heaven only knows of what he is capable, but honesty -- including towards himself -- does NOT seem to be one of his attributes, to put it mildly.  

Let's put it this way:  it might not be just roses that he's distributing!  The pathetic women on the show chronicling his exploits should all have themselves tested for STDs.

March 3, 2009 2:28 PM
 

Toni said:

This is the first year I watched this garbage and this is the last year.. This reality tv BS is exactly that... BS!! So fake.. At least try to get a good actor to fool us into thinking its real!!!  I will never watch again.  What cheep, low class, television.. I'm so happy that my son is too young to understand what he saw on tv, because let me find out he did that to a woman!!!  He won't be let back into my house!!

Horrible

March 3, 2009 2:36 PM
 

Claudia said:

This is truly pathetic. I agree with all those who said that this show is a waste of time. I was a die hard fan till last night. There is not one season that was on that I did not watch.Now I can honestly say I am over it.It is truly disturbing what they do for ratings.

What's even worse is Jason and his stupidity. Molly???Really??? OMG!!!!

The girl looks like the coldest, most frigid witch around. Even if that wasn't the case how could Molly as a woman who respects herself even consider taking back a man who flat out told her he was in love with someone else. Hello!!!! Is that messed up or what??? Can you say sloppy seconds??? Molly how could you even consider taking him back? That is really sad and pathetic and you two really deserve each other....YUKKA!!!!!

I give their relationship 6 months, no longer. Jason is too much of an airhead to know what he wants. Mark my words, he'll find fault in Molly too...

Jason you suck!!!!And to think that I was an avid supporter since the DeAnna incident.You are a sad sad man Jason. I feel sorry for Ty who has to be raised by a man who would do what you did to a woman. No morals what so ever dood...not cool!!!!

March 3, 2009 2:44 PM
 

sunshinenbama said:

After what Jason did to Melissa last night.......I am sure the other 23 Bachelorette's are on their knees thanking God that Jason sent them home.  Who would want to end up with such an immature, selfish man....excuse me....boy...who thinks women are like cars.....drive them around a few weeks... test them out.....and decide you like a different one on the lot....,so you just exchange it and try it out for a while. Good Grief.......I don't think it will work out with Molly...so all you single women who see Jason coming........RUN!!!!!!

March 3, 2009 2:57 PM
 

marivic said:

I hate Jason what he dis to Mellisa. I don't think he is the man that can keep a relationship because he does'nt know exactly what he want. He thinks that women is like  a toy that if still enjoy playing with it he will kept it but after a while he get tired he can just throw it away and buy a new one.

March 3, 2009 3:52 PM
 

Rachel said:

I would really like to see Mlissa become the new bachelorette. Im so mad at Jason.He told Melissa that he loved her and this is a quote " I am the happiest man on the whole universe". I know Melissa didnt do anything wrong. She's so cool. How can Jason say ," oh Melissa is so sweet and amazing, and she never did anything wrong, my feelings have juse changed. And he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her, and now he doesn't. UGH!!! He's a jerk!

I hope you find someone that cares about you like you need to be cared about Melissa!!!

March 3, 2009 4:15 PM
 

marivic said:

Good Grief.Jason you don't need a wife because your attittude si sucks grow-up man. Mellisa don't desreve what you did to her.What you need is a toy that if yoy need it is there for you. Woman don't deserve a guy like.  go home and take care of your son. What you need is a babysitter to look afer you and your son. Good luck

March 3, 2009 4:25 PM
 

Jessica B said:

I agree with almost all of the comments about Jason being a total jerk. I believe that if he were really in love with Molly, like he said last night after breaking up with Melissa, he would have certainly chosen Molly. Just goes to show you that obviously something wasn't there with him and Molly when it all came down to the end. And, I can't believe that Molly actually wanted to start again with him after being dumped on the final show! I thought that Melissa was the girl more suited for him in the end but, I can see that Jason has no clue as to what  he even wants in a wife. True, he liked the fact of going on a tv show and meeting all these women whom he could date and kiss at the same time. Now, guess he just figures when he gets done with one girl, he'll trade her in for another.

March 3, 2009 5:36 PM
 

lisa said:

I think  Jason is a creep to do that to melissa on tv, and molly even a bigger loser for going along with it...great acting jobs to both jason and molly. but as we all know none of the bachlors have married the one they picked. only trista and ryan..... I was so mad when i read what was going to happen last night. They made jason out to be such a sweet guy and turns out he was no better than dianna.....what a great dad ty has, such a great example of how a man.

March 3, 2009 5:38 PM
 

queen said:

Jason Mesnick is a PIG.  he's a totally low class

March 3, 2009 6:28 PM
 

Teressa Whitely said:

I feel what Jason did to Melissa was totally wrong! I feel that Jason knew how he felt about both Melissa and Molly and he had no right to hurt Melissa the way he did. He hurt Melissa in a way that goes deep.  And it kills me to hear him speak of how great Melissa is and yet he could hurt her so deeply and easily. But you know what, it is Jasons' loss and another mans gain.  Don't worry Melissa, God will lead the right man to you and Jason just flat don't deserve the loyalty, love and warmth that you offered him. I don't dislike Jason but I am mad that he could hurt Melissa this way.  I do hope that Jason has a good life but one thing is for sure, Melissa is better than what he gave her. I would truly love to see Melissa as the next Bachelorette and watch as she once agains falls in love with a man that will love her the way she loves him.

March 3, 2009 10:35 PM
 

ada said:

I LOST THE RESPECT FOR THE GUY......AND  WHEN MELISSA CALLED HIM A *** I AGREE WITH HER 100 PERCENT....GIRL U DESERVE BETTER

March 3, 2009 10:50 PM
 

Marie said:

I don't believe in their relationship(molly and Jay). It's won't last. Very soon we will learn that it's over. But what kind of magic ABC has?

To convert a nice guy to big JERK just in two month?

March 4, 2009 7:42 PM
 

Lola said:

What also crossed my mind. Jullian is the next Bachelorette and I’m not happy for her. Remember  like America fall in love with DeeAnna because she was hurt by Bachelor. Than America hates her because she  humiliated Jason.  And we all been  upset and loved Jason We been so excited he is a new Bachelor. Great man! Perfect  candidate for husband, adorable Dad – dream of any woman .Today we all disappointed and hate him for what he did to Melissa. Next is Jullian. I really afraid that it’s going to be same scenario! And  I don’t want  Jullian to become the next monster or just look stupid and selfish.  :( I really what to know –what do you think, guys?

March 4, 2009 7:54 PM
 

Honey said:

I absolutely think this was ridiculous! Jason had no right to do that to Melissa. He has been through divorce and heartbreak before ,and should know better than to breakup with her on national television. I think it’s completely absurd. He knew damn well that Melissa was hurt many times before in her life, and he still hurt her! I don’t understand how he just couldn’t ask for some more time to make his decision instead of proposing to Melissa and after 6 weeks dumping her! And right after dumping her, asking for a shot with Molly! The funniest thing is how he says, I only “followed my heart”. Followed what? As far as I know, Jason is HEARTLESS! He is not that great guy everyone thinks he is. He showed his true self. He’s  pathetic.

This wasn’t just a normal relationship. This was an engagement. She was going to be a WIFE and STEPMOTHER. Does Jason think this is just a little love game? To go back and forth between two girls?

Also, he said “ I don’t want to live life with regrets.” Well I’m sorry to say, but Jason sure as hell will live with regrets, when he gets his brain back and realizes what his stupid self did.

Looking at another perspective,  Yes,  everyone makes mistakes and no one can read what’s inside our hearts. We change our minds quickly and unexpectedly. Maybe he really loves Molly and wants only her. Maybe he’s truly sorry for what he did to Melissa. BUT he still could have ended all this in a different way. He could have worked it out in private. Either way, Jason is the one to blame and I lost my respect towards him.

Eventually what goes around comes around, and he will get what he deserves.

March 5, 2009 8:45 PM
 

diane bailey said:

fake, phony, fraud…aka melissa of dwts. she has revealed in the latest edition of an entertainment magazine that her goal is to be an entertainment news correspondent. she was very clear on the bachelor to jason that she wanted to be a first grade teacher and that was a critical issue for jason. melissa is showing fake her true colors by now sharing her real reason for going on the bachelor. hers was about fame and getting into the entertainment arena not being a wife. looks like melissa is the same as the the recent bachlorette deanna pappas...a fame wh_re

March 20, 2009 1:28 PM

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